Stop Your Fantasy

Puting a little effort in a relationship is required for it to work. You shouldn't give up easily on someone if he ever meant something to you. However if you tried and your work didn't pay out or was only one sided then you did the right thing. It's better to change your mind and leave now then after giving a birth to 5 kids.

yeah that was right. so you just turn the page and the story end. and let's begin your new life with the new hope. and valorie we stand beneath the sun with arms high open wide. so let's enjoy our life and always be happy.

Maybe I should say congratulations, right? Yes, maybe broking up with your boyfriend is good for both. I think you must be a smart girl, good luck.

If you make up your mind to leave him,then just get over him and move on,please always remember,next is best,there are so many brilliant boys waiting for you,good luck my friend!

Congratulations! I salute you for coming to your senses. You are very right in your decision. Hearts heal in time, or may be healed by another heart. So good luck whichever comes first!

To end up a relationship which is no future is right.but when you decide to do so,you must feel some sadness.That's normal.you do a right thing,you two will not hurt each other anymore,you will have a boyfriend who can understand you more.Stop fantasy and face the reality,you will have a better day.

Hi valoriesquilona, It is just a phase right now, that you are in. You will eventually be free from him totally... and that you will no longer be feeling any pain at all. since its just new... you will have many thoughts still of him, what you could have done, what he must have done, and so on... but you know its just about what was lost... However if you have said that the relationship has turned sour, and that you have almost always felt you are hurt, i guess it is just the best that you have the streght to end it, and move on. You will be okay... you'll do well, you will be fine. that is for sure. =) cheers to you!

Well it's still happy valentine's day for you. That's because you made the decision to stop the illusion and thereby showing that you love yourself more. When you put yourself first you are able to make the right decisions so no one can take advantage of you.

You did what you felt was best for you, so good for you I must say. It is better to end a relationship that will go no where then to stay in a relationship to hope that it will eventually go somewhere, but then later see that it really isn't going anywhere to eventually get your heart broken. You did what you felt was right and what your heart was telling you. Like I always say, follow your heart, it will never lead you astray.

Are you sure that you are ready to give him up? You might be just too mad, but deep in your heart, you still want him in your life? But if you think that you have given all you've got for the relationship to no avail, then it is really time to move on. No looking back. Cheers! You'd surely find another person who deserves your love, attention and worth.

I remember that old saying that relationships are like glass. Sometimes it is best to let it broken than to get trying to put he pieces back together. Or worse, have nothing strong to glue them together. Only you can say what's best, you're the only one in the position who knows what will be good for you. If you think you will be far off better without him, then I admire you for braving that path. Good luck, and may you find the happiness you truly deserve.

Some relationships are not worth saving and you're young, so it's a good start for you. There is always a life outside bf/gf relationships, so enjoy being single.

I am really sorry to hear that you have broke up with your boyfriend. but then, the reasoning you gave was appealing and I agree with you. Sometimes, It is better to let go off people than to keep holding them in your hands. You need to put in efforts to make your relationship work, but then, when you know that it is all being wasted and there is no improvement in your relationship, then the best thing to do is to part ways. Good luck for your future and i am sure you will find a better understanding person in your life in future.

you did right when we can not understand each other seperation is much better wasting time and energy to make other part understand and wait and wait when he wil change . I wish I could break up with my husband that time when was a bf but now has late and it is really hurt me daily to be with him and make him understand of his mistakes and explain him things and not seeing any changes and just live like that... you did so right things... in this world are many better people to find and you can find much better than that.

i am so sorry to hear that your relationship didn't work out. break ups are not easy to go through. i couldn't imagine breaking up with my baby. i am so sorry that happened to you. please take care of yourself during these times. try not to go to deeply in a depression. no that you have made the right choice. once you have made room, the right person will be allowed to come into your life.