Chatting Always Come To My Dream..
By Dassodils
@Dassodils (2010)
India
February 12, 2013 9:57am CST
Haii...
Now every day the only way to contact with my lover is chatting with him through internet.Some times he will be very sweet.And some times he will be very angry.That is not a matter.But the things is that I can't sleep by dreaming all these chatting in my sleep.I sleep about 6 hours on a day.But on that time too,He comes to my dream.And talks to me like chatting.Every day I dreampt such things.before some days,I was suffering from fever,cough and I also seems like very tired.My family doctor checked me and said that I am not getting proper time to sleep.Now my mom will not allow me to sit after a limit of time and scolds me to go to bed.But I can't sleep with out talking to him. I want to share everything that happened on that day..That will give me more relief on any problem.I like to obey my mom and doctor.But how can I sleep with out talking to him?? One day I was not able to sleep because he was not there online.Then what can I do?? How can I control my self by chatting too much time??Do you have such experience?? Please share..
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10 responses
@vinay049 (1878)
• India
12 Feb 13
I was like you n she was.we had been together but suddenly every scenario changed but still i am trying to get everything sorted..but i am very alone now as i used to do all above things you mentioned.n it is very easy to be attracted by other ones if you are feeling lonely..
@vinay049 (1878)
• India
14 Feb 13
Yes it is...about feelings--it is the worst feeling.i just wish even my enemy doesn't get into such situation..i am alone..it hurts a lot..i am not able to move on..i don't want to search another one..it will be compromise only from my side whenever it happens not love..i am still trying to sort it out with her but nothing is working..just waiting..n yes i don't trust anyone whether it is friend who is girl or boy..it will take time..also during such period,i came to know who my friends are which is also again worst thing..
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
13 Feb 13
Is it?? now,one of my friends passing through this occassion. Then how do you feel?? alone?? You can search for a new person.Right?? Then why don't you do that?? Are you afraid to meet such things again??Thank you
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
well, just learn the self discipline. I know that you are in love with your boy friend but you should watch for your health also.Health is wealth and you should take good care your health. You should obey your mom and your doctor for they are after your health.Your boyfriend will surely understands you.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
14 Feb 13
Yes..He gives more important to my health.And once he told this to me.but I will be very sad when he go offline.My eyes will be filled with tears on that time.I will not able to sleep properly in that night.And when I see him,I will become alright.Thanks..
@lloydbelleza (1227)
• Philippines
12 Feb 13
I think your mind is doing all these things to appease your heart. Of course, you are sad when you don't see him online so your mind would create images that he is online and you are chatting with him, but at the expense of your sound sleep. I guess what you need to do is to psyche your mind. Whenever he is not online, before you sleep you must resolve that. You should tell yourself not to worry so you could have a peaceful and sound sleep. Your dream is telling you how much you wanted to chat with him. Your subconsciousness is surfacing in your sleep. So I guess you have to start being happy and contented with the little or no time with him on chat so you won't make those images at your sleep. I am no doctor, so I don't think this is really effective but the mind is really powerful, so start with it. All the best!
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
13 Feb 13
Thank you friend..From today itself,I am starting to be a good person by sleeping at the correct time.Your suggestion is really nice to accept.And it was also helpfull to me.Thank you so much..
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
It's constant exposure to him through chatting that's making him appear in your dream. I experienced that before when I used to chat with a close friend online every night. You need to establish some time limit or something.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
14 Feb 13
When he go to his college which is far from my home,I will keep a control in this matter of chatting.And try to call him.But the problem is that there is no other way to contact him.Chatting is the only way to contact with him and share the things that happened on that day.That's why I prefer this way more than others..Thank you.. :)
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
14 Feb 13
I think that this is probably something that the majority of us have gone through at least once in our lives. For me, I was in college when this was something that was happening to me. I only got to see my boyfriend during the weekends as I was going to college in a different city while he was still in school in his home town. We tried to talk to each other on the phone when we could, but that wasn't something that was always possible and I really did have a hard time sleeping when I wasn't able to talk to him. There was something about talking to him that made me feel like everything was alright.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
14 Feb 13
Ya..When I feel very sad,I will try to talk to him.Even he is not saying any remedies,I will be very relaxed feel and feel so happy.I think that is the power of relationships.I love him so much as you said.I will be very sad on the next morning which I was not able o talk yo him yesterday..he is a good guy..Thank you and all the best friend..
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
13 Feb 13
take care of your health and take enough sleep. First you are most important than anyone and you are responsible for your health if you want to see dreams or chat with him then better to make yourself fresh by enough sleep.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
13 Feb 13
Dear friend..
I also like to take rest for enough time.But do you know one thing? He will be busy almost.And get free at the time of night 9.Then I have to wait for him till that time.And when I see him online,I have to share all things that happened on that day.Otherwise I will be sleepless on that night.So I want minimum 2 hours to complete them all..You are looking so good in your picture.What's the secret behind it?? :)If you don't mind please send it to me.. :) Thanks...
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
12 Feb 13
i have had my days actually. Those were when i was youner and i thought i do not need to sleep at all. I mean why would i even bother to talk to one but i talk to many friends. I have never really attched myself only to a specific person when chatting and i only log in onine for friends.
i thinkypu are in this situation because you are probably so in love with him that you do not want to be away from him and even more tat you are only chatting so you try to maximize your time tgat he is available. Id say that this is what your case is... You just need to make your control more powerful. You have to discipline yourself not o sacrifice the time you need to rest for your time to chat with hi. Aso kbow that your health is important.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
13 Feb 13
yes..Now I tried to control myself.I became success.I could to increase the time as 6 hours to 7 hours.after that now, my doctor said that I am in a better situation.Thank you..
@machatago (385)
• Philippines
24 Feb 13
I see you are lovesick, meaning you miss him very very much since you only chat right? I believe he is somewhere across the globe so that the only way to contact him is through chatting? It's understandable of how you feel, missing somebody that you haven't seen for a long time is okay. But you also need to take care of your health. When he won't come online on that day, try to get some rest and them you can chat with him when he gets back online. Take Care!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
17 Feb 13
I think that it will help you to do something else instead of thinking of him. Like maybe you could just right what you feel and send it in the morning. Or you can actually make a video of yourself and tell him things that you wanna share him and send it to him the following day.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
12 Feb 13
When my husband then boyfriend and I were both working in different countries, I would have the same problem. It is because of the different time zones and that is why I end up sleeping very late just so we can talk and then I have to get up the following day for work. What I did is to make sure to take power naps whenever I can and to rest well during weekends. We designated at least a day or 2 break from late chatting just so we will not get sick. I also started taking vitamins to boost my immune system, like Vitamin C because I know that my body is not getting enough sleep to repair itself.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
13 Feb 13
Okay..Will you please describe it to me?? means what type of food??? some vegetables or any medicine??? Then how do you feel now?? better??
