Any dear one deactivates account.
@pankajjahagirdar (207)
February 13, 2013 8:33am CST
Hi mylotters, through facebook our relation to someone whom we already know in real life can be deepened to a great extent. We might become very special friend with them. But have you ever experienced how it feels when the person because of whom facebook seems very interesting for you suddenly disappears by deactivating the account without stating any reason.?
HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCED?
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@pankajjahagirdar (207)
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15 Feb 13
oh, that experience is more melancholic than mine one as he has removed you from friends , and mine friend has deactivated the account. I hope mine one will again reactivate the account.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
Yes. That happened to me. For the past 13 years, I lost contact with one of my best friends. He was my classmate in Grade School. Even if he went to another school after 6th Grade, we still had communications until 1999. However, we do not send text messages that often to give respect to our spouses , coz both our spouses might think that something might be going on between the two of us. When Facebook became popular, I searched for him coz I really wanted to know how he was. Then we found each other and exchanged just a few messages. About a year after, I wanted to send him a message to ask what's up with him, coz the last text message he told me that he needs to talk to me about a lot of things that he can only tell me in personal. I felt that he must be having some problems and I just wanted to console him. Then upon searching his profile again, he was no longer in my friends' list. I tried sending him an email, but he did not reply. So, the last thing I did was call him up. But the number that he used was no longer in service. I still worry about him. But I don't know how I would reach him and if he still would want me to reach him at all.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
If this happens, we shouldn't be really blaming the sites coz they have no hold on people who decided to deactivate their accounts. It is the people's choice to do so.
@pankajjahagirdar (207)
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15 Feb 13
yes, really these type of experiences are very sad and sometimes it make us feel that these social network instead of relieving us by bringing close to our friends can also worsen the relationship by isolating us.
@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
13 Feb 13
I have not experienced something like this. But then, I am a reason why some people experience it.
I go offline sometimes from facebook and de-acivate my account. I often hear from my friends that they really find it boring when I am not there and they keep updating what and all will be happening there on facebook when I am offline. Some how they again convince me to come back because we are a group of friends and we do share a lot of activities and arguments and group discussions on facebook. So, they will really feel bad when I am not in the discussion.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
13 Feb 13
I have lots of friends and even relatives who have deactivated their account for various reasons. It is okay with me though since most of them are people that I know in real life so I know other means to get in touch with them. If they want to tell me the reason why they deactivated their account, I'm all ears. If not, then its okay, it is up to them and I will not take it against them.
