Would you change your sexuality if you could?
By mommyboo
@mommyboo (13174)
United States
February 13, 2013 7:45pm CST
If you could take a pill and instantly change your sexuality.... would you? Straight, gay, bi, doesn't matter. Anybody is free to answer. If you would, why would you?
I saw this asked in a graphic today and it made me think. I would not personally change anything, because I am who I am. I thought about it longer and I decided that I wouldn't change if I were gay either, because again, that would be part of me. I am happy with me, I don't want to change or be someone I'm not.
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@allen0187 (59761)
• Philippines
19 Feb 13
hi mommyboo.
personally, i wouldn't change my sexuality. i'm glad to be a man!!! a macho one at that!!! hahahahahahahaha!
liek what you wrote, i wouldn't be someone who i am not so i'm sticking to what i am and i won't change into someone who i am not.
cheers and happy mylotting!!!
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@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
14 Feb 13
Change sexuality? It is difficult to be a heterosexual. It is because if we are a woman, well, we can't do anything being a woman. I mean we can do something if we are woman, but its limited especially when it comes to freedom of expression unlike men, they can do whatever they like because they are men. I mean they are free. That is what I see in them. Vice versa, maybe men would be struggling for being a man and so, its difficult for him to be heterosexual and choosing to be a homosexual to make us happy and to be satisfied is difficult too. It is because society would look down on those homosexual and criticize them.
For me if I would change my sexuality, I prefer to be a man. Really. Then, I would not let anyone know that I am a woman from the past. I want to be a straight man so that society will accept and think that I am still a heterosexual.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
4 Mar 13
You must live in another country. Here where I live, women can do anything a man does and we DO. I have little patience or understanding for women who do not, or think they cannot. However, what's important to remember is that just because you can doesn't always mean you should. Whatever you choose to do should follow what you actually WANT to do. Just because some women like to have a huge big deal career, join the military, etc doesn't mean EVERY woman should do that, especially if they don't want to.
I wouldn't change anything about myself... I like being a woman and I like having a husband. However, if I were a man I'm sure I would like being a man and having a wife, and if I were gay I'd stick with it.
Are you saying you'd rather be a man... and have a girlfriend or wife?
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
3 Mar 13
of course i will definitely do that,because i wanted to be a real one and totally change my sexuality physically,LGBT society will surely accept that for a change,if only there's a pill or medicine to change the sexuality of human,many will do for that.
@mondaylover (183)
• Poland
14 Feb 13
It would be a very tempting oportunity considering the fact that all the guys I know are stupid, arrogant or just not to my liking and at the same time I know a lot of girls that are nice and smart and would make a wonderful life partner. But on the other side... homosexuality makes your life harder. It's harder to get married, to have a child or even sometimes to just live a peaceful life. That's why I would hesitate.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
4 Mar 13
I've been in that boat... there have been times in life where I also thought all the guys I knew were stupid, arrogant, or just not to my liking. Even the ones that have been friends (and some still are) make great friends but would be terrible partners.
It's true that homosexuality probably makes someone's life harder but in my opinion, it is not a choice. That's why I posted this discussion, the fact that I'm a woman and I have always been interested in men is not a choice either. I don't understand anybody who would claim it is lol. Nothing about women attracts me like my husband does lol.... and believe me, I do appreciate beauty, symmetry, and fit bodies.
All I can say about the fact that life is harder is that this stupid society does it to itself. IF people were not so damn intolerant and evil, it would be no different for gay people than straight people in terms of life opportunities, jobs, relationships, marriage, and family. I believe there is no difference and I try to live as if there is no difference. To ME, it does not matter.
@TLilly12 (1229)
• United States
14 Feb 13
No I would not change who I am, I am please the way God made me, I am a lady and i am proud of it, everything about me is the way i like it, my hair my eye my nose my mouth, I would not want to be a man, that to me is just taken away what work God has already done.
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