Men are babies on gentlemen's attire
By leateagee
@leateagee (3667)
China
February 13, 2013 9:12pm CST
I just recently heard this and I was confused. I thought, men are strong and the post of every family. BUt I have realized, the commentators are right. Men are physical strong, brave and a provider, but they need women to "baby" them. To comfort and console them after the long days of work.
Men need women, as well as women need men.
What I mean by "babies on gentlemen's attire" is that they are as gentle as babies if you would only know them more. They do not wnat to hurt women they they nag. They don't want to leave you when women are useless/unfaithful.
Men choose their lovers because there is love implanted in their hearts. Women are suppose to guard it.
Am I insane here? Do I have a point?
Maybe, it's the mood of the day.
Happy Valentine's Day! 
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
Men are babies in gentlemen attire? Oh well, it think only a man can answer it better.
As for me I could only speak from the point of view of a woman the way I see it on my man. But before that,.. I know and believe that the man is the head and the leader of the family but he can't do it all alone. This is exactly the reason why God created woman. A woman is created to be the helpmeet of a man because God sees that it is not good for the man to be alone. So without a woman, a man is incomplete. Only a woman could complete.
So in our family, I submit to my husband for he is the head but it does not mean I am treated like a poor second. No, my husband loves me so dearly and she respects and acknowledges my importance as his helpmeet. Yes, my husband does his lead role fully well but I can see that he needs me to make things through emotionally and otherwise. There are things that I can do that he cannot in the same way that there are things that only he could do. Emotionally and physically, we actually need each other both in good and in bad days. When the going gets rough, the presence of each one to provide comfort and tender loving embrace is very important. There is no better consolation and comfort than to feel you are not alone and a special someone is always by your side come what may.
So I think both a man and wife are babies in full-grown attire. There is a certain softness and weakness in both that needs some pampering, support and comfort in many different ways. Indeed they need each other to satisfy the need for such.
As for me I could only speak from the point of view of a woman the way I see it on my man. But before that,.. I know and believe that the man is the head and the leader of the family but he can't do it all alone. This is exactly the reason why God created woman. A woman is created to be the helpmeet of a man because God sees that it is not good for the man to be alone. So without a woman, a man is incomplete. Only a woman could complete.
So in our family, I submit to my husband for he is the head but it does not mean I am treated like a poor second. No, my husband loves me so dearly and she respects and acknowledges my importance as his helpmeet. Yes, my husband does his lead role fully well but I can see that he needs me to make things through emotionally and otherwise. There are things that I can do that he cannot in the same way that there are things that only he could do. Emotionally and physically, we actually need each other both in good and in bad days. When the going gets rough, the presence of each one to provide comfort and tender loving embrace is very important. There is no better consolation and comfort than to feel you are not alone and a special someone is always by your side come what may.
So I think both a man and wife are babies in full-grown attire. There is a certain softness and weakness in both that needs some pampering, support and comfort in many different ways. Indeed they need each other to satisfy the need for such.1 person likes this
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Mar 13
hi leateagee Some men that is as some hate women nagging and say so lo ud and clear.Human beings are not angels be they men or women so lets just cut some slack.some men really are needing our gentler ways and our love and coddling too.
But the nice thing is they also think we do and I hate to say this but I enjoyed this too I enjoyed that very much all during our 33 years of marriage.
But the nice thing is they also think we do and I hate to say this but I enjoyed this too I enjoyed that very much all during our 33 years of marriage.