Have you ever experience 1 accident that change your life forever
By Koon999Tan
@Koon999Tan (681)
Malaysia
February 15, 2013 8:49am CST
The accident happen back to 2010 when I was in age 22, it happen at night and I was about going home after done my part time job as a waiter in the restaurant at 1.30am in the morning. It happen flash fast enough I can’t really recalled back how it happen but one thing I can tell you is that the road at T junction, and I was in the straight way went back, while the car is drive in such hurry come out in the left side and hit me hard enough. My motor bike Suzuki Top Best was hit hard enough coz me to fly little far, my bike is damaged while I was in ICU unit in the general hospital of Melaka. I was in the hurt pain with left leg and leg hand is broken , blood is coming out fast and too much but the GH did not take care or did not have any doctor come to cure or done any operation on my condition, which is too bad.The nurse and doctor don’t care at all at my condition , lucky my brother and mother come to rescue me by transfer to Mahkota Medical Center in Melaka,I am so luck enough that my mom did buy me insurance back early when I was in Form 2. I remember at that time the operation is take nearly about 8 hours, I in such a pain at that time. At the operation ICU I get fainting for 3 day, when I wake up I have lose memories at that night, all I remember I was went back but why I in hospital? That is the funny part happen, I stay there for 12 day get bored. Sometime I walk out but get nurse mad at me, I confuss why? I don’t remember my legs is broken too, I thought my right hand only and since then I forget about the internet business, friend online or outside world friend and I can tell you I lose memory for 4 month before I remember what happen that night and everything. I can tell you that accident have change my life totally. Recovery process take me 1 year to move my hand, the scar on my face/leg/hand still exist, I get in pain when weather is wet especially when raining(Malaysia is a hot and raining country), my right hand have not strength at all even to take up the pencil or write a word. That is so terrible experience that have ever happen on myself, ever since I stay at home for recover I discover internet can make online money. I use my left hand to type and I am hoping it can earn me money to pay up electricity and water bills as I want to do some contribution too. Ok that me horrible story, I just wonder what your. Please share Your story
1 response
@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
16 Feb 13
That was a horrible accident you encountered. I read what you described and I could imagine the horror and the pain that you suffered. Thank God that you are now recuperating and it is my best wishes that you will be getting better all the time.
I started to look at life differently about 10 years ago when my father had stroke and passed away one week later. The few days that my father was lying on the hospital bed, paralyzed but mentally conscious, trying hard to make us understood what he wanted to say, I felt so useless for not being able to relieve my father's helplessness. He left us when he fell into a stage of semi-unconscious.
That painful experience taught me that anything can happen anytime to anybody, and when that happens, there may not be enough time for us to say anything we want to say to our loved ones. So I don't take things, even life, for granted. We are more fragile than we think we are. Although I still can not express my feelings as freely as I want to anybody that matters to me, I do try to. I want to let them know that I love them very much. I want them to know that they are important to me.
@Koon999Tan (681)
• Malaysia
16 Feb 13
Yes I admit it the accident that hit me is horrible, but like they say when the hard time hit and people who lend you money, help and even support is your best people that is not your friend but your own family member. I want to thank you for your wish, yes from that day I learn a different point of view that is not a life that after the money but the life of normal and family loved should be in place. when you get sick, who can you rely on? if not you parent or your sister or brother, then who else............ the painful experience did able to happen to anyone,anytime so just take the loved of your family for granted first.
From that day on, i alway say ON to my family if they need my help whether money if I afford it, or help and not to forget the support. to show them my loved for them is to have a strong communication, for me if i don't get it about some issue. All i do is to ask for clarify. from that day I learn just be smart, happy and loved your family.
@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
17 Feb 13
It is true that family is the support that we could count on when we are in times of despair and need. My sisters and brother and me are quite close and we meet quite often although each of us does have our own family. We had meals together and chatted during the Chinese New Year holidays. It is a good feeling to know that our family will always give a hand. It is priceless.
