Going to my sons mother in laws house!

@ctryhnny (3460)
United States
February 15, 2013 12:14pm CST
My Grandson will be a year old tomorrow and for some reason we are going to Maine, about 3 hours drive from here. We will be at my sons mother in laws house and neither my son or I are looking forward to this day. I don't know how it turned out this way but I'm not going to start asking questions. I know my d/i/l doesn't like to make the long drive but she's the only one who drives. Since there's no love lost between me and the m/i/l I'm going to have to be on my best behavior while we're there. She's one of those "holier than thou" people who thinks her sh** doesn't stink...lol.....I deleted her from my friends list on fb and haven't had anyone say anything about that but I'm sure it will come up. Since it's my grandsons first birthday I wanted to rent the hall adjoining my apt. bldg and was willing to pay for it since you get the money back but I guess they had already made plans to go to Maine. What can I do to keep reminding myself to be good and keep my mouth shut? I guess I'll just follow my sons lead because he feels the same way I do! I am soooo dreading this!
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
15 Feb 13
Hi Ctryhnny. I am so sorry that you are going to have to go through this. Me if I was having to go through something that I didn't like I would anoint myself and order all evil back to where it comes from and believe me this really works. I have this sister in law married to my husbands brother and when we would go to their house we both would anoint ourselves and order all evil from us and back to where it came from in Jesus name and believe me we didn't have to deal with her much. She is pure evil and everyone knows it except her husband (my husbands brother). If you want to know how to do it go read Luke 10:18-19 God gave us power to order all evil from us in Jesus name. Pray about it and ask God to intervene and believe me HE will take control if you only give HIM the power to do HIS will in your life. Good luck and God bless!
@ctryhnny (3460)
• United States
16 Feb 13
I'm definately going to cross myself before I enter her home. Thanks for the bible reading I'm going to check that out.
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@ctryhnny (3460)
• United States
18 Feb 13
For some reason everything worked out great. There were one or two times we disagreed but the opposite from other times we both just let it go.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
16 Feb 13
Hi Ctryhnny. We have a small vial of olive oil it is Gods anointing oil and believe me when we use it all evil leaves from around us. Heck we anoint our doors and our gate post when we feel like someone evil is coming around our home. And believe me the evil when we do this don't show up at our door. You want to know more this guy can teach you more about the bible and Gods power over evil then you will ever bern taught . http://www.shepherdschapel.com/index.htm Been listening to him since 05 and he has taught me so much more then I have ever been taught and I like many have been raised in a church but didn't know what this man has taught us about Gods word.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
17 Feb 13
Just think of it as giving your grandson a very special gift on his birthday. So how was the party? Did you and your son's mother in law have a chat?
@ctryhnny (3460)
• United States
18 Feb 13
The party was awesome. She and I basically just stayed away from each other since she had invited quite a few people and it worked out fine. It was a great day!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
19 Feb 13
That's great! Atleast you also enjoyed and didn't have a disaster party.
@knicnax (2233)
• Philippines
19 Feb 13
So, how did it go? I hope you played nice :)
@ctryhnny (3460)
• United States
19 Feb 13
It went great and yes I played very nice. I just kept my mouth shut when I wanted to open it. It's just that she is really an evil person and I find that hard to deal with.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
15 Feb 13
At least it wouldn't be for long. YOu only have to be on your best behavior until after the gathering for your grandson's birthday. I know we don't really have to like some of the people that's part of our extended family, but we can always be the bigger person in case they decided to start some crap over something that isn't a big deal to begin with. At least, enjoy the day and have fun with your grandson. Time flies by so fast and sooner or later, he will be too big to hang out with his parents and/or grandparents.
@ctryhnny (3460)
• United States
16 Feb 13
Yes, time does go by too fast and he's already so big I can't believe he's a year old. It's his day and I'm not going to let her get to me.