CLose to perfect relationship!

Philippines
February 18, 2013 3:20am CST
I;m satisfied with my relationship now,. We are going on our 8year anniversary in a couple of months. What I'm proud of my realtionship with him is , we have fought for God knows how many times already over petty things, big things different kind of things, but NEVER ever in our relationship did we fight over third party in his or my side. He never gave me reason to doubt. Between us, he's the jealous type. he can be a bit possessive at times but I never complain nor feel suffocated by his demands. In fact, I'm fine with it I love him and he never did things I loathe. If he does things I like, it pleases me but if he does things I DON'T, I'm not mad, I just understand. Same works in his part. Moreover, little sweet things he did the first few mmonths in our realtionship, He does it consistently. If I were to find fault or disadvantage in our relationship is he's a mechanic, gets paid a bit lower than I do. But it never occured as a problem to us, specially to me. I don't mind as long as I see his determination to better himself in terms of growth as an individual or growth as a couple. We share expenses. Someitmes his treat, sometimes mine. He's the type who say sorry though evidently it's my fault. Because he understands that girls are just like that. He supports me with everything to a fault. Maybe thats bad but my point is im just happy with the place where im in and who im with. Sometimes I thought to myself is this for real? But Ive been through alot in life, too maybe that's why I got a close to perfect relationship. Balance.
4 responses
• Philippines
19 Feb 13
uuuuhhhhhhhhh... SOMEWHAT, I can see a part of ours in your life... we are like the same.... It is okay to FIGHT as long as you make up. These days TRUE LOVE is hard to find and lucky you that you found yours and been HEPPY for 8 years now... STAY HAPPY and LOVED.. cheers to both of you =)
• Philippines
19 Feb 13
Well cheers to both of us! :) Love Love Love
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
I am happy that you have found a person that would balance your personality. It takes two to make a relationship work. And not unless your love and respect for each is strong, then the relationship will fail.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
19 Feb 13
There are many that believe that no fights or just happiness would be the goal but those who seek that will find only dellusion for the other must be different from us to end up challenging and changing us, making us grow. I'm glad you found equilibrium!
• India
28 Feb 13
Good to know about your great relationship. Wish you to continue it forever.