Patience

@shimaya (141)
Philippines
February 19, 2013 9:46pm CST
"Love is patient and kind", this is my favorite verse from the bible. Someone courted me but eventually he gave up. He said he did it not because he got tired but because he just want to be someone better than he is right now. He courted me for almost 5 months and I'll be a hypocrite if I'm going to say that I didn't feel anything in return. He somehow became very special but I think there are things that didn't work out for the both of us. I still find him special and still hoping that things will fall on their right places at the right time. I always pray to God for patience, patience to wait for the right place, right time and right person to come my way.
7 responses
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
20 Feb 13
It is patient if you have a partner that you love very much and you are capable of putting up with him despite all that might happen. Sometimes we grow tired of loving someone because we cannot put up with that person because we have let things get out of hands.
@shimaya (141)
• Philippines
20 Feb 13
So cherish the moments together and enjoy everything that had happened or will happen. So no regrets in the future.
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
21 Feb 13
Yes we should never have no regrets. Life is full of surprises. :)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 13
all we need in love is just a little patinence,so i guess the verse is right. not even bible but all holy book telling the same. that love is patient and kind.
@shimaya (141)
• Philippines
21 Feb 13
Yeah! you're right and Patience is also a virtue :)
@navi33 (113)
• Philippines
20 Feb 13
Thanks for sharing. I don't know the whole story but if he said that he want's someone better for you, Mostly its just and excuse for him maybe because he can't really say what the reason is or maybe he didn't know that verse on the bible and lost patience on courting you. I know there's destiny but I don't think that destiny is the only thing that you need to have a good life but you must also need to know when to take over for the things you wan't.
@shimaya (141)
• Philippines
21 Feb 13
Thanks navi33! Truth hurts but maybe you're right he lost patience on courting me. I believe in the saying that "there's more to life than love". I may not be lucky with my love life but I believe that God has a better love story in line for me. right?
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
i also and always believe on it,we should always have patience because this is the way that we can find good time for us,we should never hurry up our self to find the guy in our life but to wait the right one for us,patience is always the key of all of this.
• Philippines
20 Feb 13
" Love is PATIENT and KIND. It is never JEALOUS or BOASTFUL or PROUD" I heard this one to my all time favorite MOVIE,,, "A WALK TO REMEMBER" and I consider it as one of the best scene there. I totally agree with what the verse says, BUT,,,,, in your case....i'm still thinking twice if my sympathy is on your side or the boy's side. I know you have a point but I must say that the boy has a point too... maybe you just didn't meet halfway.. BUT I always believe that everything happens for a reason.. MAYBE God has a bigger plan for you and he has something in the future better than what you think you could have. I know that everyone has a PAIR and they will come on it's PERFECT time when you least expected... CHEER UP!
@shimaya (141)
• Philippines
20 Feb 13
That's my fave movie too. I do believe that God has someone in line for me maybe not now but someday. I maybe sad for a moment but I trust God that He will give me someone I really deserve. Thanks for the advice :)
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
20 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Yes u are absolutely right, in love one has to be patient and kind. i can understand your situation very well and i know things somehow did not go well between the two of you but there is always a second chance and i think u can try for the second time, may be things might work this time around. What say?
@shimaya (141)
• Philippines
20 Feb 13
Do you think a second chance will do? But he said maybe we both need time to think. Being special friends for now let us do things without pressure. We haven't talk in person yet about what happened.
• Philippines
20 Feb 13
"Love is PATIENT and KIND it is never Jealous or boastful or PROUD" hahhahaa... this is one of the sweetest scene I like from my all time favorite movie A WALK TO REMEMBER.. And it makes a lot of sense... I also agree with it... BUT in you case,, hmmmm,,, wait,,, I don't know if I will be on your side or on the mans side.. I know you have a point but I think the boy has also his point, you just didn't meet halfway. But on things for sure,, there is always someone out there who did God destined for you.. NO need to wait... I will come in his own will,,,, CHEER UP!