How would you treat his family if you are the other woman?
By pomwango
@pomwango (1353)
Kenya
February 21, 2013 12:30am CST
i am eavesdropping on a conversation where this lady is justifying herself to her friend.she tells her how she ensures her man takes good care of his first family and she lets him go home early enough not to cause friction with his wife.so she feels she is not hurting the other woman since she looks out for her well being whats your opinion on this issue?
6 responses
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
21 Feb 13
Hi Pom ! I have a simple answer here that would raise the eyebrows of some . I will also love her family . I will not do anything that will hurt more their family , as much as possible i will not do anything that can defamed their family. Whoever he loves , i would be loving also !
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
22 Feb 13
Sounds crazy but it seems she care more about the man family than he does . So I think she is better than the cheater . I dont like woman that go after other woman husband but I think it wouldn't happen if the man didn't agree so they are equal.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
22 Feb 13
The common reason for the problem is the man . He betrayed his wife not the other woman . That is the sad truth .
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
21 Feb 13
That is just silly! if she is after the well being of the wife and the man's family, she would stop seeing this man and will not even want to continue the relationship. She is just trying to convince even herself that there is nothing wrong with what she was doing. But it is ultimately wrong! whatever it is, her reasons for staying with this man, and whatever she is doing to not cause any problem is for her and not for the woman. I am sure she will try to adjust, if it blows up and the wife knew about it, i am sure that the wife will be chosen by the man and will leave her.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
21 Feb 13
No amount of consideration on the part of the other woman will ever justify her being a home wrecker. She is still the reason that a certain family is on a brink of getting ruined. Getting involved with a married guy is wrong, no amount of reasoning will ever make that right.
@smiling_ja (261)
• Philippines
22 Feb 13
I can't believe it there are still people like that..better that way than any other mistresses? So she feels that she's doing the first family good by being considerate and not demanding too much time from the guy so he can get home early and attend to his responsibilities? I don't understand why having known this man to be married she carried on with their affair. Is it really men are scarce these days?
@Sherryrob1 (126)
• United States
21 Feb 13
That reasoning sounds crazy to me but we all can find ways to justify our actions. For some reason this lady must feel like she doesn't deserve to be number one in a relationship since she is settling for second best. That wife most likely knows that her husband is cheating just by his actions or mannerisms and the other woman doesn't know whether there's friction at home or not.
