friends

@irshaz (19)
Malaysia
February 23, 2013 5:12am CST
do have a friend who use to stab your back? i do have, she talking bad about me behind me towards others
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4 responses
@redredrose (1105)
• United States
24 Feb 13
Then she is not a friend. At least not a real friend because a real friend wouldn't talk about you behind your back they would tell you to your face. Or they wouldn't say anything bad about you at all. You need to just stop hanging with this person and being friends with her because she isn't a true friend. I don't think true friends would do this.
@oindy54 (3445)
• India
23 Feb 13
Hi, Yes unfortunately I have had to deal with such people in my life. Just as you I have had so-called friends who have been back-stabbers, trying to ruin my reputation. This is one aspect that removes all respect for that person in my eyes and once I get to know this nature in a person, I usually steer clear of them. We surely cannot call them our friends if in the guise of friendship they are talking bad about us. As in your case, if your friend wanted to express something about you that he/she did not like, should have mentioned directly to you instead of talking behind your back. This is really unacceptable. I hope you can confront the person and make things clear once and for all. Good luck!
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
23 Feb 13
We all meet people who stab our back but it's you who call them your friend. A person like that is NOT your friend. So kick out that person and tell him/her you are no longer friends!
@cmania (207)
• Portugal
23 Feb 13
Unfortunately I don´t know if I have a friend that talks about me behind me, and if I knew that I would surely get upset. Sometimes friends like to chat very much and to open the mouth with sharp tongue! I don´t know if they want to do it with bad intentions or not but i hope your friend doens´t do it with bad intentions :D