He is worth KEEPING
By AR Dianon
@dianon_ice14 (461)
Philippines
February 25, 2013 10:49pm CST
I have a very close GUY friend, and I really enjoy his company. I like spending time with him. We talk a lot of things, we were both crazy and share same passions and hobbies maybe that's why our friendship last forever PLUS the fact that he is one of the person that NEVER gets angry even if I drop the meanest joke to him. . .
He courted me before and I rejected him but we remained friends and HE is courting me again now but I .... I will be rejecting him again.....
I don't see anything wrong in him,,,,, very talented, smart, kind, has a GOOD SENSE of HUMOR and is a very loving friend...
BUT I don't know I don't want to take the risk but anyway even if I like it it's not possible because I have a boyfriend and EVEN if don't have one I will still not consider him as one.
Maybe, He is just too special that I don't want to lose if we decided to be as lovers. I want to keep him as a friend.....
5 responses
@MoonGypsy (4605)
• United States
26 Feb 13
yes, i think you had better keep your relationship as just friends, especially since you already have a boyfriend.
@dianon_ice14 (461)
• Philippines
26 Feb 13
I know, I just adore him. Just so nice to have a friend like him.
@machatago (385)
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
Just keep your relationship with your boyfriend and have this guy friend just be a friend. Sometimes being friends are more wonderful, relationships with your close friend may not turn out great as you hope it would be. I hope I make sense.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
26 Feb 13
Wow... that is a big decision to make. Yes, at times we do not
want to risk such a great relationship. However, sometimes we
look back and wonder what will it be if we have make the alternative
decision. Could it be a successful and more fulfilling relationship?
Or we will loose a wonderful friend. So risky!! that we would not want
to make any decision at all. I have married a good friend, thinking back
we should have remain friends. I expect him much more as a husband but he
is not up to my expectation. 
Hope one day miracle will
happen that he will be a great husband that I always dream of!
Hope one day miracle will
happen that he will be a great husband that I always dream of!
@41CombedaleRoad (5966)
• Greece
26 Feb 13
Are you not being a little bit selfish here? The man obviously dotes on you and keeps coming back, perhaps you should try and free him from his obsession. He might not see this friendship with you as being as platonic as you think.
Then there is your boyfriend to consider, how does he rate your friendship with this guy who suits you so perfectly? Dare you ask? What does the boyfriend lack that the close friend has? You need to be a little introspective about your relationships with the men in your life I would suggest.
@inopiratum_a_medio12 (877)
•
26 Feb 13
I admire you for valuing your relationship with him and your level of maturity is quite excellent in terms of how you carry yourself to others and not over thinking from your advantage but despite the fact you have mutual emotions in some ways you consider keeping your relationship. The decision is far more great I hope the guy will see the better perspective of your decision. Enjoy!!
