when will you say that you are already contented with your life?

@johndur (3052)
Pasig, Philippines
March 1, 2013 1:12pm CST
Is it when you're old? Is it when you are dying? Is it now? Human nature is they live for more and never contented with what they have. What is it that makes you feel contented with your life?
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11 responses
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
3 Mar 13
Indont think humans will ever be contented. its mans nature to crave for something more, to look forward and achieve more for them selves,
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
7 Mar 13
Yes but when people grow old and tired they just wanted to to stop and look at all their chievements in life and they are contended.am I right?
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
3 Mar 13
Thats true and only a few know when to stop and be content.thanks
• Penrith, Australia
6 Mar 13
I dont think people can really stop, i mean, holding yourself back from what you can make out of life. That doesn't sound very human. We all want to make out the most of our human experience.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
2 Mar 13
I am not sure when I would be able to say that. But most probably, when the right comes, that is the only time I can say I did. But as of now, I think I need there;s a long way to go to be able to say that I have fulfilled every dream that I want. Not even sure if I'd ever reach them.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
2 Mar 13
Lets be positive in our thinking.im sure you can reach your dreams. Just always have the motivation to reach for your goal. Thanks.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
4 Mar 13
Well just think of them as stair where you will have to step down to go up.and always think that success is sweeter if you got it the hard way.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Mar 13
Thanks! I do try to be positive about it, but sometimes I would get worried of things that are happening. Not everything is under my control. And sometimes, the problem is not me wanting to achieve the goal, but people around me who might be hindering it.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
I do not know, usually i would always just want more when i have finally reached a goal. maybe this is a person's real nature, that we will not feel contented when we see there is still more we can achieve. Maybe I will stop when I no longer feel the need to achieve something. Maybe when I am too old to do something I would be content at what I have worked so hard for right now. :D
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
26 Mar 13
true...thats what i think also..its human nature to go for another goal when they reach one....and there is no end for that unless someone grows too old to go further or die...thanks
@bonez899 (42)
• Canada
16 Mar 13
I honestly think, for me, the answer to your question is never. I will never be content with what I have until the day that I die. On the day that I die I'm sure I'll look back over my life and be content with the things that I have achieved up until that point, and then be satisfied with what I had. Until then I feel I will always have one more thing to do, and that will not allow me to be content until then, until I can do no more.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
18 Mar 13
Thats what most people do.they keep going until they can do no more.some of them die uncontented with their life.
• Indonesia
13 Mar 13
I will say when i feel happy that is the time when I already contented with my life. Happiness come and go so does with my contentedness. I know it sounds so typical but when I feel happy is the time when I don't want anything but to keep the happiness with me.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
14 Mar 13
Thats true.you always feel content when you are happy.i think it goes hand in hand.they partners.you will never be contented if you are not happy.
• Philippines
25 Apr 13
Hi johndur! I think it is when I already have my own family with my fiance. It will complete me as a woman and as a person. I don't dream big for myself yet I dream big for my family. I want them to live a life that brings them joy and good health.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
26 Apr 13
Thats a good example of how to be contented the simpliest way. Thanks...
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
2 Mar 13
Hi johndur, I'm now no longer young We would be contented when we have reached our goals in different stages. After some time we strive for another higher goal. We would be satisfied till the goal ahead is accomplished successfully. Seems that humans are greedy and won't be contented for there are countless of life targets to be fulfill Nowadays my kid and nephew have grown up and have respective own jobs and apartments in the other states. My husband and I can live a comfortable life randomly. Could say nothing to be worry any more. We are really contented with our happy life style at present. Anyway heath is very important and we do our best to keep fit and healthy. Happy posting and have a nice day
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
2 Mar 13
Thats true human nature is never content and always looking for more.im glad that somehow you are already contented with what you have.thanks.
@dlr297 (5409)
• United States
1 Mar 13
I became the most content with my life the day i turned my life over to Jesus Christ, and became born again.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
2 Mar 13
Im sure its the best feeling a man would.turning over to God. Thanks.
@choconut (297)
• Philippines
2 Mar 13
depends actually on a person, because like for me, im easily contented so im very much contented in the place where i am right now even though its not the things i probably dream about when i was a kid. But learning to be happy with what you have and be content with the little thing you have will make a huge difference in your life you'll be contentedly happy and peaceful.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
4 Mar 13
That's true.if only we can be thankful in every little things in our life it is easier for us to be contented in life.thanks
• Philippines
3 Mar 13
I think, I'll learn to be contented until I fully know how to be a master of my emotions. It's hard to be contented when you constantly want something, especially having it seemed to be impossible. I think people can choose to be contented in different things only if they have mastered to control their emotions and longings in life. A person who doesn't know his parents can only be contented when they already know them right? Well, if he only thinks that he'll only be contented with it;).. Right now, since I am driven by my impulses, I'm not yet content;). I think, acceptance can also be a reason why a person is content:)
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
4 Mar 13
That's is the reality I think.people will not be contented if they don't set a goal for them. That is something like a finish line....thanks
6 Mar 13
Thanks johndur for your thought provoking question. It is really difficult to say about contentment as I am not contented now. Mental satisfaction is closely associated with contentment. I have been searching the way to be contented. I hope the dream will come true that I am nourishing. I will reach to the level of mental satisfaction.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
6 Mar 13
I just hope you reach tiat goal to satisfy your mental emotion and be content.thanks.