lifetime effect of infedility
By Firefly
@cttolledo (5459)
Legaspi, Philippines
March 2, 2013 11:15am CST
Hi mylotters!
I just want to hear different opinions from you guys!
What if someone courted you .. you fell in love.. and you became lovers...but a week after you found out that your boyfriend just broke up with his girlfriend for you. What if you are not aware that he courted you while he has a girlfriend. What will you do? Can you give him a chance or break up with him?
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4 responses
@cherigucchi (15934)
• Philippines
26 Mar 13
Break up with him or break his neck?? Just kidding.
This person should never be given a chance...unless you enjoy being played around. He has already shown his true colors at the very beginning so why take risk???
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
I would dump him. It shows how he does not respect his ex. I can't expect he will different towards me. Besides, I find guys like that shallow, annoying and suspicious. I did experience this. He was a random guy in the mall who talked to me. He was not really courting but he is flirting. So I asked him when he broke up with his girl friend. He said just a week ago.
I would never go for a guy who just got off a relationship. It shows how little they feel for their ex. It reflects what kind of guy he is. Maybe if he tries to pursue for longer time and proves he is true to me, I might consider being in a relationship with him.
@jalucia (1431)
• United States
2 Mar 13
All practical advice would say to leave him alone. He deceitful and hasn't healed from his prior relationship. But in all honesty, if I liked the guy and the relationship that we had, I would stay with him. Needless to say, it would always be in the back of my mind the dishonesty that he is capable of.
@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
2 Mar 13
If he did that to his current girlfriend for me, what's my assurance that he will not do the same to me when another girl that he likes come along? I also believe that if he can cheat for me, then he will cheat with me. I may be paranoid but then it is so hard to give my 100% trust when the relationship starts on the wrong foot.




