Are you feel jealous to your sister or brother?

Philippines
March 4, 2013 8:01pm CST
I have twoo sister i am the oldest.sometimes i feel jealous when my mother comport my sister even though she knows that it was my sister fault.i know that i should understand cause im the oldest but it doesnt mean i should make the situations become right even if its wrong..Im not angry with my sister i love her. i just want to make my sister know that she done wrong and accept her mistake.. Do you feel jealous to your sister or brother? and why?
10 responses
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
I always feel sad for my sisters whenever my father and mother scold them.I always be the role model in the eyes of my parents but I feel uncomfortable instead.I am the eldest, my younger sisters look at me as the parent's favorite but it is not.It is just the way I give respect and obey my parents.I am happy whenever my sisters did right.From age Seven, I remember how my father did a lot of sacrifices and so my mind is set to have a better life for us.My siblings are immature that is how I see their reactions whenever our parents give them a lecture.
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
thats sad..thanks for sharing your story...i love my sister i love them all..i just want them to know what is wrong and right..they are matured enough...
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
So am I, the love I have for my siblings is uncomparable.My sisters got married so early and so I want to keep supporting them as much as I can.My eight brothers are physically bigger than me but they respect me as I am their eldest sibling.Happy family is what I always pray.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
I have also felt jealous to my siblings. However, it never lingered in my mind. I don't want to have bad relationships between the three of us. So I just shrug it off.
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
i understand that...i also do that...thanks for your comment..
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
Hello there. I think it is normal for us to feel such towards our sisters or brothers. As for my family, honestly speaking I have never felt jealous of them (either of my two b brothers) I am the only daughter in the family. And that my mother had always treated us the same way. Some days my mother would fight with my brother and I am always the one that appeased my mom. Since I do not have a sister I think that made it possible that there were no sisterly fights and that there were no jealousy because I am the only girl in the family.
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
maybe thats the different..i dont have brothers im wishing to have a brother..hehehe but my mother is old to have a baby..
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
Jealousy is an ordinary feelings. That is natural to mankind. Some animals or pet if you notice they are also feel jealous. There comes a time that i feel also jealous with my bro. But i don't show to them. I often feel jealous when it comes to attention and some materials like clothes and things he need. And this is very ordinary for me.. Important is we always understand everything around us.
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
thats true..were same.i understand them everything that is happen.its because i feel its normal to human to feel jealous..
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
5 Mar 13
Since I am from a Chinese family where they favors sons, so I just don't bother much. I am youngest in the family of 8 siblings, naturally I am loved by all (in the surface ...lol). However, it seems my second sister are favored by my other siblings because of her natural diplomatic skill and her generosity with cash..... So, in a way, money talks louder and lovable! I did felt offended a bit but who cares.... as long as I love myself and appreciates life. In your situation, it is best if you can find a suitable time to just nicely tell her so that she understand. This is for her own good. All the best.
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
thank you for the comment.. its nice when you are the youngest you will be loved by all..
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
5 Mar 13
Many people do have the same feelings in their whole life and i believe this is noramal to see.Sometimes i told myself to have a right attitude towards this and just ignore sadness,i feel thus much better.Only you can decide what mood you gonna have.
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
yes thats true..its normal to us to get jealous..wer human..thanks for your comment
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
I have never experienced being jealous of any of my siblings. That's because my parents don't play favorites. In fact, i can say that i am their favorite , being the eldest. Thus, i was surprised when at one time the sister next to me said that she was jealous of me when we were growing up, because i always get new clothes always, while she gets my hand me downs. I felt ashamed that it was like that, but then i know she just have to voice it out since that time, she was the most affluent in life amongst us siblings.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
5 Mar 13
Well, I have a younger brother who is 11 years younger than me. Despite our relationships are not the best, this is because of his behavior a little overbearing and arrogant, I openly declare that I am not at all jealous of him! It does not matter if my parents nourish all, I live my life. The only thing I would improve is to try to have with him, a relationship between man and man. Unfounded, nor I, nor he are children!
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
5 Mar 13
I have never been jealeous of my siblings..I am the oldest of 3 girls and 3 boys..I have never even thought about have any ill feeling towards them what so ever..I love my family so much that all I ever want for them is success/health/happiness... Your post was not really clear about what your sister did for you to be jealeous. I hope your love can overcome the feeling you have....
@jiiiiin (586)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
I often feel jealous to my younger siblings because my parents were always on their side whenever we are having small sibling fights. But that was before, when I am a kid. Now that I am eighteen years old, I think I am mature enough that I am just letting our small fights to pass by without jealousy on who our parents taking sides.