Dead relation!
By wishjui
@wishjui (271)
India
March 7, 2013 10:36pm CST
Friends do you agree that we should carry a dead relationship just for the sake of our children?
They feel good and safe when they find their parents together and we all know the fact but what if we feel sick being together. children are gift of union and when the there in no union......what are we suppose to do?
Should we do justice to our own life or should carry on with a lifeless life. we all love our children but what if we don't have any thing left in our personal life!I know separation is very easy but is it the right approach being a parent?Are we selfish?Is this kind of selfishness is worth?
Seen many examples of broken families and sufferings of children from those families......confused and scared! Anything positive there?
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2 responses
@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
8 Mar 13
For me, if what really matters to you is the safety and life of your children then you can be both live or stay in one house and be friends.. .Try to be friends for the sake of your children if possible.
Sometimes, parents need to sacrifice their happiness for their children.But in time when your children grow up already and have their own career maybe that's the only time that the parents can pursue their happiness.
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Mar 13
I do not believe in divorce unless adultery is happening in the marriage or abuse. If neither of those things are happening I will be married forever...
I think all problems and issues within a marriage are fixable. There are ways to make things better, counseling is one of them. Another thing to help keep the marriage alive is going out together, having romantic nights together...My husband and I have lost a child together, we were homeless together, we have moved at least 20 times together, we are struggling financially, etc... If we can go through SO many stressful situations together and still make our marriage work-anyone can do it! If they want to make it work, they can...
Try a date night, just the two of you together...Like when you were still first dating. It will make a difference.
