Too much information.

United States
March 9, 2013 2:53am CST
Do you ever find that you and your significant other share too much information? Even information that you don't want to know about? I called my fiance yesterday because we really barely got to talk and he tells me "I was about to go take a s***, so can I call you back?" I swear I love this man but he can creep me out sometimes with how open he is.
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• United States
11 Mar 13
That's not being open. That's just gross and too much information for my taste. The most I have had to deal with was when I was on the phone with Mike before. He had said he really needed to pee and wouldn't let go of the phone. I heard it in the background as we continued to talk. I said, "Seriously, Mike? You're hilarious but I didn't need you to stay on the phone if you had to go." We still talked another 45 minutes after the fact. I've done the same thing too though. Not wanting to hang up on a call with a few select people, I've gone to tinkle but just wouldn't flush the toilet. They never knew the difference.
• United States
11 Mar 13
He only had to go wee wee It wasn't like I was hearing him grunt because he was doing number 2. I vaguely remember him saying he only needed one hand.
• United States
11 Mar 13
Goes to the bathroom and staying on the phone? NOW THAT IS GROSS and unsanitary. At least my baby has the courtesy to get off the phone when he has to go.
• United States
11 Mar 13
Oh geez; now THAT was too much information. You have gotten way too comfortable with me you know that?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
That means you have been together for too long and that he feels so comfortable telling you anything that he has in his mind. My husband would be that too open as well. I have gotten used to it after being married for 19 years.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
10 Mar 13
I guess, it really is something that will happen after so many years of being together. But of course, there are days that you'd prefer not being too VOCAL about personal things.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
9 Mar 13
I agree with you too, it is normal in a couple 's life, right?
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
hehe hi there Angel, ohhh this happens to us (boyfriend and I all the time) and well he even told me one time that he will just take a poop, and when he was done, he even texted me he is done already and he had diarrhea that day. ohkay so i just told him that i don't want to know more, that's fine haha
• United States
9 Mar 13
I tell him "okay I didn't need to know that much babe" and he tells me "I just thought I would share that little information with you". I am thinking in my head that is just so groww but it makes me laugh when he tells me that just because it is so out of the blue.
@grkelly (1206)
• Malta
9 Mar 13
It is probably his way of being open with you, because he feels confident with you. When you start living together, or get married, you wil need to get used to this kind of openness. However, to be honest while I am still dating I would have preferred a bit more seriousness if he were my partner.
• United States
9 Mar 13
I love that he's silly and open with me, its just not something I exactly want to know. Plus when we are living together he won't exactly have to tell me that.
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Mar 13
It's so funny because when my husband and I were first together he could not even pee in front of me! Lol. Now, he says things like what you described! He is no longer shy at all with me...But after 9 years of being together I am not surprised he is not shy anymore.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
9 Mar 13
I don't think it's about sharing too much information (and if so it's mostly the woman who does, men seldom do) but more about what your partner is doing with it (abusing it for example during a "fight"). This besides of the fact that too much talking, too much sharing can kill a relationship as well. if your are getting like a millstone around the neck of your partner it's a bad thing, many (women) do since men mostly do think that if you tell them something they have to come up with some advice as well which is seldom the case).
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
9 Mar 13
I think it is normal for a couple. It means that he is very comfortable to share you any information. It is a good sign, I think.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
9 Mar 13
Not really. There are people I love I wouldn't share everything with, but with my fiancé, I kind of feel more relaxed about these kinds of things. I don't say disgusting things just for fun, but I'm gonna euphemize too much when it's about kind of more disgusting or embarrassing.