My 3 year old daughter is super fussy with her clothing

@maximax8 (31053)
United Kingdom
March 10, 2013 1:03pm CST
I bought a lovely looking Hello Kitty cardigan reduced from 11 pounds to 7 pounds. I took it out of my daughter's wardrobe then she put it on the other day. I washed it and today she refused to wear it. She had a dress and tights that looked superb with it. My daughter is lucky that my sister gives her clothing my nieces have grown out of. When I take my little girl shopping she is so fussy. Did you ever have your child being fussy with her or his clothing? What would you do if in that situation do you think?
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@Trace86 (5030)
• United States
11 Mar 13
My eldest niece was super fussy when she was younger. Actually, she still is! She doesn't like tops that are fussy. She only wears screen-printed tees. It is easier now that she is old enough to pick out her own stuff at the store. When she was a toddler, people would buy her the cutest tops with lace, buttons, snaps, zippers, etc. and she would refuse to wear them. The family learned quickly just to give my sister gift cards for my niece. I don't know if I would have been as calm as my sister. I may have tried to force the little "darling" to wear what I want her to wear!
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@Trace86 (5030)
• United States
11 Mar 13
It is still so hard! She is such a pretty girl and will only wear jeans and tee shirts or hockey sweats. At least her younger sister is girly! I love to shop for her. But I feel guilty buying for one and not the other.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
11 Mar 13
Hello Trace. It is lovely to hear about your eldest niece. It must have felt uncomfortable for your sister when she was a sweet looking toddler and her not wishing to wear the cute outfits. I am pleased she now chooses her own clothes now. That makes life easier.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
10 Mar 13
I think that is normal for that age. I would not worry about it, but maybe give her a choice of either that or another outfit. She is just starting to get her fashion sense. Just make sure she does not a whole lot to choose from.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
12 Mar 13
You're welcome. I used to watch Nanny 911 and Supernanny and that was one of the suggestions they made. Of course, my sons are all grown, so the advise was a little late, but then we used to do that as well.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
11 Mar 13
Today I gave her a choice and she wanted option a and not option b. At gymnastics today she likes her pink shorts over her tights and her long sleeved pink top. Yes, two choices are best. Many thanks.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
11 Mar 13
Wow that's really young to be fussy about clothing my friend! Trouble is when money is tight it is really hard to make them understand that they cannot get endless choice of what they will wear and what they won't, besides at that age they grow quickly too, so they grow out of clothes just as fast! And she needs to know that mummy cannot buy too many clothes for her.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
11 Mar 13
Hello my friend Wolfie. My son says he hasn't got enough toys. Well, he has to be joking. He has an Imaginex police car and ambulance, a fire engine, a Thomas the Tank Engine Railway and a helicopter with a sweet face plus so much many other toys Yes, money is tight and I don't like to see wasted food. I can't afford to buy loads of clothes for my daughter. She is so lucky to have the clothes she has. I am going to give her two choices of outfit per day. Tomorrow her favorite dress will be in the wash.
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@ctryhnny (3460)
• United States
10 Mar 13
At 3 years old I didn't give my kids the option of what clothes to wear. I took it out of the closet and put it on them. I guess kids today are a lot different than they were then. My kids never gave me a problem.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
11 Mar 13
It was lovely you could take the clothes out of the closet and put it on your kids without any problems. Kids today seem to be more fussy.
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
12 Mar 13
I remember My Brother's eldest daughter as a little one having a thing about not wanting to wear clothes that she felt were too confining for her..even instances of them not taking the tags off items for her beforehand,in case She'd refuse to wear it and they'd have to return it She's a teen now,and grew out of that phase,thankfully
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
10 Mar 13
Oh, there's a young fashionista in the making :D. I don't think that's a big problem if a girl has her opinion about clothing and won't wear anything... look at it from the brighter side: she's probably not going to be a doormat who would be too shy and afraid to tell her piece of mind to people when needed. If I had a child like this... well, first of all, I would buy stuff from the thrift store (I mean, good condition ones), because they are cheap, and if we need something other, it's not going to make me go bankrupt :D. Or I would try to learn to tailor clothes, or just to decorate plainer ones with stuff she likes.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
11 Mar 13
Thanks for your excellent suggestions. Yes, my daughter likes to dress in a fashionable way and I am happy she isn't shy. My youngest niece is very shy and my youngest nephew is an elective mute. My sister is quite shy and my mom used to be in her younger days she told me.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
20 Mar 13
Only 3 years old and yet she is so aware of what she must wear? Your kid must be a fashionista in progress! Well, I had not difficulties with any of my sons at that age. I just noticed, though, my third son would rather use pants and polo shirts all the time when he gets out of the house regardless if he would just be picking me up from work or he would just be playing at his grandparents' home.