Is it necessary to take wedding photos before marriage??

@Mintlin (322)
China
March 11, 2013 8:00am CST
Hi all,do you think it's necessary to take wedding photos before marriage ? most people said yes,because it's the part of cherished memory of marrigae,others think it's a waste of money. In my case,i did not take wedding photo before my marrige. what do you think?
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@joycseer (845)
• Malaysia
12 Mar 13
Hi Mintlin, it depends on individual couples liking. For my case, i prefer to have wedding photos taken before marriage, and it's normally used to air them in slideshows during the wedding dinner for our guests. Also, it is a wonderful memories and treasure to cherish as part of our beginning of new life and journey together. Furthermore, it will become our sharing with our children and grandchildren of our lovely marriage. Besides, taking wedding photos is a once in a lifetime thing, why would the bride-to-be miss it...
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@Mintlin (322)
• China
13 Mar 13
after reading your beautiful reponse,you are right and you make me wanna take the wedding photo right now..lol...maybe i should discuss with my husband this later,if he likes,we can take the photo this weekend.^^
@joycseer (845)
• Malaysia
14 Mar 13
Hahaha... Wish you both a blessed marriage , and may you enjoy your wedding photo, beautiful bride!
• Indonesia
11 Mar 13
well, for me it's not. it's different between pre-wedding photos and wedding photos, but we'll have many photos to be remembered without pre wedding photos. it's also waste money. the worst thing, when we put one of our pre-wedding photos on marriage invitation. after the wedding were finished, sometimes we see our photos on trash bucket
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@Mintlin (322)
• China
12 Mar 13
lol...you got a point. I've seen a lot of times,the wedding photos on invitation letter are on trash bucket and on the street..it's hurtful but true.
• Indonesia
15 Mar 13
yes, and we don't want to be one of them on trash bucket, right?
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
11 Mar 13
It's not a necessity of you ask me but it is really up to the couple. Why not get a package for prenuptial photo shoot of you have got the Budget right? I think that it is really nice if both the couples would have some photos to look at when they have time and go look at each one of them. Of course you may say that right now it's easy to take photos and it is common for a couple to have a lot of photos already. But why not take a couple of a good shot done by a professional once in a lifetime? :)
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@Mintlin (322)
• China
12 Mar 13
hi,yes,it's a point.have a nice day
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
I do think that it is nice to have photos taken prior to the wedding as it adds up to the memories that you'd look back after so many years of being together. It is now very common that there are Pre-nuptial Shoots. My sister's wedding was in 2011. And she had it made like a coffeetable magazine.
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@Mintlin (322)
• China
13 Mar 13
yes,it's the memories that we can look back when we get old.but for me,i have so many photos in ceemony,it's really enough for me
• Philippines
11 Mar 13
It depends on the people, some take their pre-nuptial photos as part of their wedding and as a remembrance. Some don't take it because they can't afford. There's nothing wrong with pre-nuptial.
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@Mintlin (322)
• China
12 Mar 13
yes,there is nothing wrong with it.every people has his/her own opinion.
@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
12 Mar 13
Me too, I don't want pre-nuptial pictures.. because such pictures are scripted..all scenes are all planned... I prefer a natural or stolen shots.. Other thing maybe because I want a simple wedding.. Less pictures less ceremonies and less crowd.. I want it to be true as much as possible .. I don't want so much scripted moments during wedding.. I hope my dream will come true.
@Mintlin (322)
• China
13 Mar 13
I like simple wedding as well,actually ,on my wedding ceremony,i only invited a fews friends and relatives.I dislike crowed one, i just want to share this important moment with my love ones,actully i like wedding travel more,it's easier and sweet,just two of us
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
12 Mar 13
The most important part of the wedding is the Ceremony itself,it can be as basic as a Registry office event with witnesses and maybe taking the day off from work..or budget/overdraft permitting,going the whole nine yards with a team of attendants,Hundreds of guests,Big dress,Big Cake,and the whole Tabloid style photo and video frenzy and riding off into the sunset for a Lavish Round the world Honeymoon to follow.. It may be a Cultural thing,or a Social thing,but photography is just a way of preserving the Memories of the special day..A Studio photo shoot for the couple BEFORE the wedding takes place is just another complication in an event that can be one of the most stressful and expensive at the start of a new couple's life together.. Any Competent Wedding Photographer should be capable of producing a Wedding album of photos on the day of the ceremony,including some stand out portrait shots.. Having a studio shoot would appear to be something of a belt and braces approach,or a fallback position in case things might go disastrously wrong on the day..or,it could be just keeping up with the Jones'...?
@machatago (385)
• Philippines
11 Mar 13
It's an option if you like to have some prenuptial photographs or not. But if you ask my opinion, it's not necessary, we have plenty of pictures before that and much more good memories than a prenuptial one which can be frustrating since you two have to pose in a certain way which is unnatural. It may look nice and cool, but its just a waste of money. Let's be practical nowadays, it's not about how grand your wedding or photos will be, it's how grand the two of you are in love. And will stay in love when you two grow old.
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@Mintlin (322)
• China
12 Mar 13
well said ^^many people aroud me they really think wedding photo is a vital part of wedding/marriage,they spent much money on it as they think it's just one time in one's life,it doesn't matter for the money. but i think it's really waste of money. most people they never look through these photos after they got married. a lot of people even they got a very wonderful wedding photos but they still got divorce.the big part is the love.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
11 Mar 13
Are you referring to the pre-wedding pictures? It is actually the prerogative of the couple if they want to shoot this or not. Some photographers for the wedding offer their services in a package that doesn't only cover the actual wedding itself so most couples just go and have their pre-wedding shoot. It is your choice if you want to do this or not. Some couples even do the video to be shown on the reception as part of the program.
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@Mintlin (322)
• China
12 Mar 13
hello,what i am trying to say is like this: the groom and bride go to a professional studio and dressed up by the cosmetician and costumer,then the photographer will take pictures of them. In our culture,we will pick up the most nice pictures and usually hang it on the bedroom's wall.
• China
12 Mar 13
i think that wedding photo is necessary for the coming marriage,by if you do not have a lot money,there is no need to waste money for the photo,you can choose a cheep one for your memory.
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@elenaliu (149)
• China
11 Mar 13
I think it's necessary to take wedding photos before get married,I wish I can take wedding photos,but my boyfriend don't like to,I feel sad.
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@Mintlin (322)
• China
12 Mar 13
maybe you can try to talk with him again. In my case,me and my husband we both do not like taking pictures. But after we got married,he talked to me he would like to take the photo,but i said no. I said we can take photo until our child is born ..lol..then we can take a samll family photo.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
11 Mar 13
Well I never had taken pre wedding photos I did not see the point in it all it is a big waste of money
@Mintlin (322)
• China
12 Mar 13
yes,it's just a memory of marriage ,the most important in the relationship is not just photos
• Philippines
11 Mar 13
no it is not important to take prenuptial photos. you know what's the most important thing in the wedding? its the ceremony it's self... A relationship is more blessed by our God if the wedding is offered to him. I have a very simple wedding. never planned of getting any prenup photos. because as for me and my husband the solemnization of the wedding is the most important thing in this event.
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@Mintlin (322)
• China
12 Mar 13
hello there,thank you for your answer,you have a point there,yes,i agreed with you that the most important thing is the ceremony
• China
12 Mar 13
In my opinion, although it cost so much money(in China, 800$-1600$), it is really a great fun for me to spend this period of time with my wife. Also, in our country, most of the girls require their future husband to take wedding photos, or they will not merry......If only the prices get down!
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
12 Mar 13
I think wedding photos can be taken before or after marriage. But here many young couples like to take them before wedding and use them to make a small film and show the film during the wedding. To me, I think wedding photos is important which contains a good memory while they does not need to cost a lot of money on them.
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
Not necessarily important but its an option. Wedding is once in a lifetime. As girl wearing her bridal gown in white that symbolize of cleanliness or virgin during wedding. It nice to have as remembrance that once in our life we've been married.. Taking wedding picture is an optional...
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
If you have extra budget, then you can have one. But with the question if it's important, I can say that it's not. The most important thing is the ceremony itself. The time that the groom and the bride makes vow to each other to live together in one faith. I didn't have that. you are right, it's just a waste of money.
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• United States
12 Mar 13
Well, I think it is not necessary. It just depends on the bride and groom to be :) Me and my hubby didnt have like that. But we do of course have wedding pictures :)
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
Taking pictures especially of those with happy ones should be photographed. These are good memories that you can bank on later in your life even if it turns sour in the long run. Memories fill the void and empty spaces of our lives. Without it, there is nothing you can look back especially when you get old. Just a thought my friend.