What you dont know wont hurt you
By ally12
@ally12 (1202)
Philippines
March 11, 2013 9:46am CST
Would you like that way or you would prefer to know everything happening that concerns you. Im a sensitive, easy to get hurt person but I still prefer to have an idea of whats going on than to believe that everything are just fine even it really isnt. I rather be hurt with reality rather live my whole life in falsehood.
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@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
11 Mar 13
I am like you I would rather know what is going on that way it won't hurt as much then to keep me in the dark also like you I get hurt easy and I am a 47 year old male
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
11 Mar 13
well I want fact right then and there dont hide it from me
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@marguicha (215711)
• Chile
11 Mar 13
I always prefer to know what is happening around me, no matter how terible it is. I can see then in what ways I can help or how I can act. Life has a lot of pain, but when I learn how to manage it, it is better.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
11 Mar 13
You are so right. I want to know the truth and nothing but the truth. I can handle it. I don't like being lied to when its something that is important in my life. Especially a relationship. Tell me the truth no matter how hard the truth will hurt me, I know I can handle it better then if I find out you were lying to me. I love living my life in truth.1 person likes this
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
11 Mar 13
I absolutely require truthfulness and transparency in any relationship. May it be a GF/Bf thing,marital relationship or friendship. Yeah its better you hurt me now than make me believe on fantasy that I will later knew it was actually a nightmare of deceit and lies.
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
11 Mar 13
sometimes some matters need to wait before they will be told. It doesn't mean that they are hiding something from you.. It is just that they are waiting for the right moment and the right time.
this is my opinion to this discussion.
What you don't know won't hurt you. true for the people loved you so much will not put you into a situation that will hurt you.
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
I understand that. There are appropriate time for everything, there are really matters that are should not be unfold untimely, yet for some other reason there would be people who would make it a habit to lie because they thought if you dont know it they are not actually hurting you and theye are not doing you wrong, so they will just do it again and again and as long as they can hide it from you they are safe from guilt.
@cmania (207)
• Portugal
11 Mar 13
Reallity is quite hurtfull and hard to assimilate sometimes but... not telling things as they trully are hurt us more and amke us even more worried.
Some people hate to take reality as the truth and found theirselves in the middle of a bunch of illusions...
Maybe to ease and to be more sencive when we tell the truth we can try not to make it long and confusing and say it in the most positive way possible, so it´s not so hard to accept ?
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