I Fell Inlove With My Chatmate

Philippines
March 11, 2013 11:47am CST
Hey there my fellow myLotters! Earlier, I was browsing my e-mail and I seen some of the e-mails that I had saved. I look back and reminisce the days we had shared. Here's our story: (I don't wanna dig deeper our story) I met him in a paid-to-socialize site. He was my chat mate. I did not expect that one day, I was able to meet a guy just like him. He is a complete package. He has the qualities that I had been looking for. When we chat, I am the happiest. Our communication stopped when he undergo a heart surgery a year ago. By the way, my chat mate was in a relationship that time. Their relationship was on the rocks. She got pregnant, but she had miscarriage. After that they broke up. And now, we rarely chat. All I know is that he is in-love with his best friend. But he has no guts of telling on how does he feel. Fast forward... I was able to continue living my life, but there are times that I am pondering. Is it possible that our roads will cross once again? Am I really waiting for nothing? I know this is crazy, but I still like him. I am praying that one day, God will let our roads crossed.
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3 responses
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
for me i will just move on.. if you two are meant to be together then i believe that mo matter how long you will not chat or see each other by the right time it will happen.. it is hard to fall in love with a guy you personally don't know but like i said if you are destined then it will happen..
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
Thanks for the advice my friend. Time for me to move on.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
11 Mar 13
No I wouldn't wait on him and that is just my opinion. I say not wait for him because there is also a chance that you won't cross paths again and then what if some other person crosses your paths and then you would lose them, because you are waiting on this guy that may never come around again. I say don't wait and if someone else comes along that will sweep you off your feet then move on, but if you do cross paths with him again and you aren't with anyone else, then in my opinion, it was meant to be. But never wait around for anyone.
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
Hello there trisha! Perhaps your correct. I should not wait for him because I might take for granted the one that is meant for me.
@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
22 Mar 13
I really feel for you, love is love, and it is very hard to move on. I hope that you will be able to find another person. I hate to say this, but please be careful. some people do like to play online, I don't think this happened to you, but it does happen to many people. I love to chat so take everything at face value and refuse to fall in love with words, hints, lyrics, poems or messages. Face to face only. If we maintain a 'face to face' rule regarding our online experiences and relationships, then we should be ok, or a little safer regarding our emotions. My best to you and I hope you have a great future :)