"Child Abuse"

@giex22 (273)
Cebu, Philippines
March 13, 2013 10:54pm CST
Their are lots of child that was being abuse by their own father or stepfather. I just read an article in a newspaper that a 6 years old girls was being abuse by his own father every time the mother will go to work and that 2 children a 6 years old girl and 9 years old brother will left alone with their father. Once their father told the boy to buy some foods in the store and the young girl was left alone with his father that was the time the father raped the child but it doesn't happened once. It happens the time the young girl left with his father but it was being ended when the boy saw a thing so he told it to their mother. It's not easy to believe that the father do something like that to a young girl so they plan an action to caught that freak and they succeeded. The father is in jail now but it so sad to think that their own father do that. What is your reaction when you found that their is a child being abuse?
15 responses
@patnopy (721)
• Philippines
14 Mar 13
that was very sad to know that even all over the world there are a lot of child abuser and some country can't easily remove that fact
@patnopy (721)
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
right
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
14 Mar 13
Maybe this also happen to some other country and we can't easily get away to those people abusing the little ones, though their is a punishment to those who commit crimes.
• Norway
14 Mar 13
It's so sad to see all the wrong things people can do. Some people just have no compassion and won't think about how the things they do affect other people. I'm glad he was caught, so that at least it won't be happening anymore. I hope the girl is able to move past it and have a good life in spite of what happened.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
15 Mar 13
We do all hoping for the goodness of the girl that the trauma will be fade away into her mind and also to her brother and mother. They will undergo a counseling to see if they will cope up with what happened to them.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
14 Mar 13
That man is a total animal, he should be executed without mercy. What kind of father would do such thing to his own child? Such terrible news I heard from time to time from around the world, and I found those men are such animals. They should be in prison for lifetime. I just couldn't believe it happen again.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
15 Mar 13
It is always happening now a days into different country. This man is so insane to do things like this to his own child. They would be in prison for a lifetime kingparker and that we just pray for the goodness of the children and also to the mother. Thanks for your opinion. have a nice day
• United States
14 Mar 13
WOW, that's reall crazy. I am so sorry for these kids, but the parents will find their judgements. One day if they don't die, they will be old, and the same thing might happen to them.Too much actions are happening in this world, that's why life is being harder every day because of bad judgement.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
15 Mar 13
The father was being judge already and he will suffer for a lifetime in jail. Our life is not so easy so we should be strong and fight each day pass.
• United States
14 Mar 13
It is one degree of abnormality that I find difficult to imagine. Consider the age difference and relationship. This is incest in the highest order and abuse as well. It gets me pissed off.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
14 Mar 13
Absolutely right, their are lots of differences between the two but we can't help it their are some people like this who does making an abusive behavior to small ones.
• India
14 Mar 13
yeah.. now a days we can read many news regarding child abuse. and its really very shameful. and the most worst thing is that when the home is not safe. In india,there was a t.v programme 'satyamev jayate' and in their 1 episode,they have discussed this topic.. and called many victims who were nw grown up. and it was really shocking to see that not only girls.. but boys when they were young were also the sufferers. one of the victim's mother was crying and she said it was my fault because i had not trusted my son when he was very young. she just advised parents to listen and understand if their children are telling u something like that. and take this seriously.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
15 Mar 13
The most valuable thing in children are they doesn't lie to what they see, in such cases we should believe to what they are telling to us. Not only girls was being abuse but also boys during their childhood days. As you said aarzoo the victims are already grown up now but do you think that they forget what just happened to them. Do they have a counseling?
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
14 Mar 13
I have heard of this news time and again, its the father, the father's friend, a neighbor, step father, their older brother's friends, and grandfather that would do this to these poor girls and its sickening. Can you imagine the most trusted people in a girls life would be capable of doing this to them? That is just silly and unacceptable. I can't even begin to think why fathers would rape their daughters. :D
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
14 Mar 13
Yes, it so hard to believe that their are people like this when the little ones will already build trust to them then that is the time that they plan to break it by doing some bad things. It's a horrible thing to think but this moment it is already happening to some children.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
14 Mar 13
I am very sad everytime i read this kind of news. I would like to suggest if can to let that father not only at jail but more torture is better for him. The trauma he gave to his own daughter will not erase otherwise they will go to some places with no one know them. For the mother let not her daughter be left alone even with their father especially if he is drunkard. And there are lot of things to consider why they need to takecare much of a girl..
@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
14 Mar 13
i feel sad for the child whenever things like this happened especially that it is her own father who did it to her. good thing the little brother saw it and told the mother. hopefully the father will be put to jail so this kind of thing will not happen again especially to a 6-year-old girl.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
14 Mar 13
So am i jadoixa, sorrowful happen to their family especially to the child. Indeed, the boy have braveness to tell it to her mother so that it will be stop. The father is in jail now and the punishment is on process but hoping that this would end.
• United States
14 Mar 13
I work with underprivileged kids it's a really sad thing but it does happen much more than you think yes, I agree the perpetrator should be jailed and punished but it shouldn't stop there he (or she---yes, this happens, too)needs to be counseled so that it won't continue with a new victim meanwhile that entire family needs help I've seen sons repeat the sins of the father and victims become bitter
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
14 Mar 13
Truly a sad thing for the family. I agree with you, all the members of the family would put to counseling because it will help to the children and also the mother. Particularly the emotional state of the family is really down so they should need help.
• India
14 Mar 13
This world is full of mentally sick people, We should encourage children to talk about these things with their mothers. I assume due to this, small girl's behavior must be changing, as a parent mother should always keep watching these sudden changes in children. God Bless us, and keep us away from these monsters.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
14 Mar 13
Yes, encouraging children to talk is a good thing but it is not easy because once you want the child to speak their memories will rewind and tears fall again and at this state they are afraid to talk. Sudden change of behavior to a child is a big thing, and yes mother should keep an eye to their angels in this kind of situation. Thank you for your opinion God bless you too.
• India
14 Mar 13
i have heard a lot about these type of cases. Children are not safe in their own houses. Such type of people should be given severe punishment.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
14 Mar 13
It is all depends on the parents if they are abusing their own children or not. Their are always a punishment to those people who commit crimes but it is also depend on the country their "R.A. Code".
• Philippines
14 Mar 13
this is a sad fact, unfortunately there are a lot of fathers who abuse their little girl... and ruin the life of the child. I really don't know what came into their father's mind to abuse the children. But I believe God never sleeps... God will repay all this evil things that has been done to these angels.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
14 Mar 13
You are right Sheilla their are father like this and we don't really know whats inside in their minds abusing their own children. God never leaves us in all the odds in our life, if their is a big typhoon then their would be bigger surprise coming in and He would lighten the life of that angels.
• India
14 Mar 13
that is such a cruel behaviour, how can a father do that with her own daughter i am really shocked and stunned , i have heard such cruelity in my country as well and that is not good, they should get the punishment what they deserve.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
14 Mar 13
Totally, so am I, its a sad thing that happened to the young girl. Their are laws behind this cruelness and i hope that the little girl will win this fight. Now it was being process on the court. Lets just pray for the young girl to stand and be strong along with her mother.
• Indonesia
14 Mar 13
So shame to know that there many parent out there doing something terribly bad to their children. Parent should be the one who the children come to when they feel fear, insecure and feel sad, not the one who they afraid of. So many child abuse criminal case in many country but some of the never known by public or by the police because the children is under threat of the abuser. So sad,,, this world is crazy..
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
14 Mar 13
It's a hurtful feeling that their are some parents doing this in their own child. I certainly agree with you the way that parents should be the model, a hero in the eyes of their children for them to hold but sadly it doesn't happen when it comes to the word abuse. For the children, it is scary and painful thing to them.