unfriend in facebook
By itsmejuna08
@itsmejuna08 (83)
March 19, 2013 1:01am CST
There is this one friend of mine who, i don't know.. just upon hearing or seeing her name in my wall in facebook or even in person, she just ruin my day!! maybe because i get insecure to her. but i think there is nothing to get insecure with because she is such a dirty girl. she even tried to chase my boyfriend.
but i just keep my hatred by myself and treat her well when we see each other or when we are chatting online. But as i have observed from her is that she is avoiding me. when i started to chat her, she won't reply. she will only text me if she has questions. and there is one friend who told me that she cannot come along because i was there..like duh??!!!
and now, she did not unfriend me in facebook but i cannot see her updates or status..but when i tried to log in the account of my boyfriend, i can see her updates or status.. she really is avoiding me..
i hate her even more for that.
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16 responses
@Pegasus72 (1898)
•
10 Apr 13
Some people just like to start problems and this sounds like what might be happening. I have a problem like this where someone started something and then ran with their tail between their legs when people came to my rescue.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
21 Mar 13
Personally, it sounds like you are nether off without them. Unfortunately this is someone you know but trying to steal your boyfriend is totally far from cool. This woman does need to be unfriended and learn to be a little more nicer and act more mature.
@Happielady85 (384)
• United States
21 Mar 13
I think you should not continue to be her "friend." If you notice, I put quotes around the word friend because I don't consider this relationship a friendly one.
Find a pleasant way of letting her know that you don't think of her as a friend because of how she is treating you.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
19 Mar 13
Maybe you both don't like each other, hence she chose to hide her newsfeeds from you. So does that mean that you are constantly checking her account? Please don't do that anymore. I know she tried to chase your boyfriend but you are just ruining your day if you will keep on checking her out. Wouldn't it be nice if you and your boyfriend are just cool and happy all the time? I am not saying that you should put your guard down just in case she tries something like that again, but I think you have stressed enough and have been insecure enough that it is time to move on.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
20 Mar 13
haha..I can relate with this. My boyfriend's ex girlfriend befriended me in Facebook and yeah I confirmed her. i don't know what really her intentions are why she befriended me, until the day when she chatted with me and ruin my day. She said, she and my boyfriend and are still on and still did not yet have their break up and so I get so pissed of for the both of them. i asked my boyfriend about it and he said "No". "We have no communications already, she was just trying to irritate you." And so I listened to him to just ignore his ex. But as I always logging in and see her face, My day always ruins as like seeing a witch.lol. I don't know. It came to my mind to unfriend her. But I did not do it until now,.
@Dias14 (176)
• Indonesia
19 Mar 13
I think everyone has experienced this, if indeed he is away from you by deleting your friends on facebook, it means that the person is really there amaslah with you. I suggest you stay patient, and you have to keep your boyfriend so do not be taken by people who are chasing him.
@Angel3yes (455)
• United States
19 Mar 13
I wouldn't get so bent out of shape about it. I used to know someone like that and believe me, she's not you're friend in any way. It's better if you don't dwell on it because hatred really does poison your soul and if you can trust your boyfriend, than move on and good riddance to her.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
If you don't like her that much then it's better not to see her updates, etc. I guess she doesn't want you to see what she's posting, etc. It's goos that she's the one who did the move. She chased your boyfriend? Oh, you have to be watchful. I hope there's nothing going on with her and your boyfriend.
@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
19 Mar 13
If I were you I would just ignore her. There is no use thinking about her not paying attention to you. Show her that you are not affected by what she has done to you.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
Maybe she doesn't want the issue to become bigger that is why she keep silent.
Ignore her like she is doing towards you and don't get affected by her acts.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
I thought you didn't like her to begin with. Why are you bothered that she is avoiding you? Isn't that much better than tolerating her being annoying all the time?
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
19 Mar 13
if u think u want to be friends with her like before,
i think u should confront with her and try to work out what had happen that make u both feel un comfortable with each other
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
19 Mar 13
aha! why have you found out that she has unfriended you LOL. maybe you were waiting for her post to be annoyed LOL. I am "unfriending" people that I don't know... and they would never know because they are not my real friends.
It is okay at least now you are free from annoyance and irritants. Move on
@ashpm87 (17)
• South Korea
19 Mar 13
You seem to be a good person by heart. Do not let her ruin your happiness. Distance yourself from people who makes you feel bad. Be close to people you love and who loves you back. Life is short... so enjoy every second of it. She clearly is playing tricks on you. She wants you to be in life only when she wants it. It doesn't feel right. Unfriend her on facebook and live your life your way and not by her way
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
There is no use in keeping her as a friend in Facebook if you do not see or treat each other as friends. Might as well unfriend her.
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
if she unfriend you in facebook it must be the feeling is mutual.. she avoids you because she doesn't want anything to do with you.. so for me just move on and be happy with your life.. we cannot please everybody.. if she doesn't want you to be her friend.. fine.. life goes on..
