I hate no sense of responsibility of man

@elenaliu (149)
China
March 20, 2013 9:01am CST
I heard from my friend that one of our friend has an affair,he wanted to divorce with his wife,it shocked us when we heard that,I can't believe that,I never thought he was such a no sense of responsibility of man,his wife was pregnant,how he can do that?Why?Can you tell me why?Don't there is no eternal love?
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4 responses
• Romania
20 Mar 13
Hi elenaliu, i also hate this. We have a neighbour who did this too to his wife, but they were married 15 years..I was and still am very good friend with his doughter and i was completely shocked when i found out, in my view they were the perfect family and i never heard them arguing. He cheated on his wife, the mistress got pregnant and he divorced his wife. I've never believed those stories about middle age crisis but after this happened i'm beggining to think it's true.
• Romania
20 Mar 13
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@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
25 Mar 13
Hi, It is very unfair to divorce his wife as he is having affair. You must feel sorry for having such insensible friend. There is no eternal love to him. He has only attraction and no true love. I hate such people who don't care for others feelings. you should not keep friendship with him. It is the punishment for him for his unfair behavior.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
20 Mar 13
There are many men out there who live in the moment and think with the wrong head. They don't really care about how they treat their spouse, pregnant spouse or girlfriends. I call these guys dogs who jump from one girl to the next without a care in the world. It's especially sad that he would do this while she was pregnant. I went through something similar years ago. I was with a man for a few years and we got engaged. However, I ended up getting pregnant before the wedding. I decided to cancel the wedding because I didn't want to hear later that he married me because I was pregnant. I know it was planned ahead of time but I was 21 and never wanted to get married and end up divorced. I made the right decision though because when my girl was born he had a son born two weeks later. I didn't find out about it till 8 months later when I found a diaper in his car that was bigger then the type I used for my baby girl. A lot of men are dogs but thankfully about ten years later I found a good guy and we have been together almost twenty-five years.
@TLilly12 (1229)
• United States
20 Mar 13
Some men feel like that can have, a wife and cheat on their wife to, and she will never find out but, thew wife always finds out, if here husband has cheated on her, if you friend is going to leave her husband, because he was unfaithful to her, than I think that is the best thing.