Who is the Boss between you and your boyfriend?
By Firefly
@cttolledo (5459)
Legaspi, Philippines
March 21, 2013 2:38am CST
I know that relationship of a girl and a boy has equal rights and obligation to each other, but we all know that equal set up rarely happen , there's always inequality in the sense of decision making.
Even in my case, I'm the boss in our relationship.. I am the one who usually decide, but in every decision I made I always see to it that I won't hurt the feelings of my boyfriend and I want to him to be happy always in whatever decision I made. But sometimes, I let him decide when it comes to his personal stuff...
How about you guys?
3 responses
) and I have this unspoken thing about who's the boss. I say, he's the boss, with my permission, haha! @cttolledo (5459)
• Legaspi, Philippines
22 Mar 13
HAHA! fair enough but I think there's something wrong.. you mean he's the boss by name but still final decisions will be yours... LOL
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
21 Mar 13
We are pretty equal... but I have to admit that we haven't lived together, so we haven't faced too many big decisions to make. But in the smaller parts (like where to go, what films to watch, which TV show to see), we decide in turns, and ask for the other's opinion, too.
@cttolledo (5459)
• Legaspi, Philippines
21 Mar 13
Hi.. same with you, we are not living in one house, but we are business partner at the same time that's why we usually made decisions but with regard to small things like where to hang out for dinner or lunch, or when to go out for movie are usually my decision because he let me decide about that.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
21 Mar 13
Well i am glad to hear that even though u take all the decisions in your relationship but still u make it a point that your decisions do not hurt your boyfriend so that both of you stay happy and get enough space in the relationship. i think this should be the attitude of every one who r in a relationship.
@cttolledo (5459)
• Legaspi, Philippines
21 Mar 13
Yeah! I always respect him in whatever decision he made especially when it comes to his personal matters and his family matters. Maybe he is my boyfriend but I do not own him..
