My dad has an Admirer

March 21, 2013 2:44am CST
My dad has a friend, his batchmate. more or less 55 yrs. old. She constantly calls my dad. I'm not sure with her intention. She always act as a good friend to him. My dad respects her and sometimes talk to her. she also talked to me befriending me, and I accepted. Because I find her a good person. maybe having a crush to my dad won't disturb our family. maybe a little because my mom sometimes reacts. hoping that nothing won't go bad
7 responses
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
21 Mar 13
Oh that is so cute! Unless of course if she starts disturbing the family and trying to mess up your parents' marriage. I hope she also try to befriend your mom. I mean, as a wife, I know how it feels when another woman befriends my husband but not me. It also makes me question her intentions and whether she's got ulterior motives or what not.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
21 Mar 13
Just because someone is nice, it doesn't necessarily mean they have romantic interests... she maybe just would like friends. Men-women friendships exist :). But even if she had those feelings, if she's nice, and doesn't act upon her feelings, and is nice to you, that's no harm, really.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
21 Mar 13
Wow, your dad definitely have a charming look and a great personality. I believe your mum will react and will try to be more 'better' than this admirer. Do careful, 'crush' can be threatening too at certain circumstances. If she genuinely intend to be a friend, then it is good since she is a good person.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
21 Mar 13
I do hope that she doesn't have any other intentions other than be a good friend to your dad. Coz it would surely pose as a threat between our mom and dad's relationship. I do think you should remind your dad about it. Coz, your dad might be a really loyal husband, but when someone shows some motives, well, you may never know.
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
21 Mar 13
so why isn't she befriending your mom, or at least be nice and pleasant with her, and not just you and your dad?
@miryanag (346)
• Bulgaria
21 Mar 13
I don't think this is a bad thing as long as the lady knows her boundaries.Maybe it's good for your dad's selfesteem to know that he is still a handsome man.
• India
21 Mar 13
Good to hear about your father's admirer. May be she is having crush with your father. As you mentioned you don't have any issues due to this crush. What about your father? Do you think he is also having crush with her?