Courting: What is the most original way to show your feelings to a girl?
@firepanther91 (186)
Italy
March 21, 2013 7:44am CST
I think everybody was at least once in the situation to have somebody he likes and have the desire to show the feelings toward the other person. For this reason I'm curious to hear your opinions and know: What is the most original way to show your feelings to a girl? I know there are many ways. It may be a letter, it may be just asking her to talk and telling her directly and with simplicity. But I would like (especially from girls) what would be for you the most original, nice and romantic way to know that somebody likes you? I think in love creativity is never enough, so please share your opinion.
6 responses
@blueangelwrites (149)
• Philippines
21 Mar 13
I would say it is knowing stuff about me that he gathered from people close to me and surprising me with it. Also, if he made a point to communicate everyday especially if he gets creative with that. Important thing is that we will both feel the sincerity.
@firepanther91 (186)
• Italy
21 Mar 13
Good point, thank's for your advice. So you would like if he get in contact with you very often? Personally I don't do it because I don't want to be bothering to the girls
@blueangelwrites (149)
• Philippines
22 Mar 13
I guess for every girl it's different. The impression would be he thought about me and said hi.
@sunsham68 (1376)
• India
21 Mar 13
Hell, you have a lucky girl, to have that kinda motivation, most guys just get lazy on that and its so sad when it makes so much of diff to the girl... but to answer your question..
Dont go for the most original. just keep a lot of random stuff and do it when she least expects it. More than originality, which can get tiresome to keep hunting down, a surprise is a great thing to keep the spark alive!
Did that help?
@sunsham68 (1376)
• India
26 Mar 13
Thanks for marking my response as the best :) Been a long time since I got one, and it feels great! Glad I could help, good luck with your plans :)
@firepanther91 (186)
• Italy
22 Mar 13
Thank you :D
I appreciate much your advice, maybe it's the best thing to do.. Also because I want to show my feelings in a way she will not take them for granted and not being too invasive so she can appreciate it more. So your advice in this case suits perfectly ;)
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
21 Mar 13
I can't tell what is the original way to show that feeling.
But I can tell about the old style here in our country.
Here in the Philippines, the original way of courting is to sing a song -we called it "HARANA".
The boy will sing a song in-front the lady's house (a love song of course)
That's the sweetest way of showing and expressing love.
Even in this modern times- some guys still do the same thing and most ladies here in our country find it too romantic (maybe because youngsters of this new genre seldom/ very rare can do such way of courting)
@firepanther91 (186)
• Italy
22 Mar 13
Knowing about your culture is really nice! Well that's a nice thing to do for sure, I believe the girls feel really important when they listen to this song. I believe in italy some rare boys did this too.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
21 Mar 13
hi fire,
In now generation courting is slowly fading a reality that some can't accept
In my country serenading is one way of courting like what jaiho's said but I think no one is doing it now a days if there is well I can say you can rarely find it.
I still want the flowers and chocolates then go to girl's house meet the parents etc.
welcome to mylot
keep on posting
happy mylotting
@firepanther91 (186)
• Italy
22 Mar 13
I believe the purest form of love is the romantic one. Today in most countries this romanticisism has been lost and often relationships are just a way to satisfy ourselves and not to make the other person happy. I'm glad there are still countries where these values are still alive!
@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
21 Mar 13
Just be yourself. If you love and serious about how you feel for her, the romantic way will just spark without you knowing it, but the girl will see it. But if you want to add some spice you can even sing a song for her, lots of things you can do to be romantic. Goodluck! Xx
@firepanther91 (186)
• Italy
22 Mar 13
Yes you get the point: the most important thing is to be ourselves. Because the other person should appreciate us for who we are. Sometimes we try to do "surprising" things, but semplicity can touch even more.
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@passion4fassion (996)
• Philippines
22 Mar 13
Be polite invitation is not a crime you can invite her fir a tea movie or snack while knowing her.always be your self and treat someone nice with respect
