Beauty misuse

India
March 24, 2013 5:49am CST
Have you anytime face somebody misuse the beauty of other one? I had a friend from high school, and college we were together, she was so beautiful that many could die for her, and for that, when she was going for job interviews, all bosses was eager to give her chance just for her face beauty, once, she came to me and cried about what her boss going to do with her while of lunch time. she left her job for that and later, I heard that her boy friend misuse her beauty in a party and even misusing her photos and in that way, harassing her for marriage, that if you will not marry me I will show this to all... I also feel that my man misused me for that, he married me just for that and keep me far from everybody, for I do not know why. that is also kind of misuse as I think. how about you? any experience in misusing beauty in your life? thank you.
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@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
24 Mar 13
Men is much reserved in the case of beauty, especially something which is in his hands. This is a typical case and when it comes to everyone, they are quite indifferent. I have heard and read from the news and papers that many people tried to spoil their girl friends by throwing acid and such cruel ways when they deny the marriage. There are some people even don't like to speak with someone and be open to others etc. But what for? We don't have any rights on our beauty. Mainly because it is not as per wish. It is gifted my nature our only duty is to maintain nicely on what we have. Don't you think so?
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• India
24 Mar 13
• India
24 Mar 13
What should I understand from this symbol??
• India
24 Mar 13
that is reaction on what I saw on your symbol
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
25 Mar 13
AS far as i understand,every single person is attracted towards something which is beautiful,and most of us also wants that it should be their's.Why can't we think the other way around.Just because girls are beautiful and charming,every boy would expect that such a beautiful girl should be with him for his whole life,Same can be the case with boy's too.It all depends how we represent ourselves and how are attitude is towards the person.If you are beautiful and you don't know how to deal with people who are waiting to take advantage,you are nothing but a prey for them. One should understand that beauty does not stays for a lifetime,however one should look at the person by the way he/she thinks,behaves,understands,and cope up with situations,no matter if its good or bad.Well if someone is misusing you,its not their's but our fault to let them take advantage of our liberty.If you can't judge people,how are you going to survive in this cruel world. As far as your personal life is concern,yes men are possessive for their partner's,but one should also have trust in each other.You can't just say that he married you for your looks,May be you are beautiful,but he might have seen something else too,like your nature etc etc.If you are kind hearted person,and emotional too,there are lots of possibility that people may take your advantage some or the other way,may be he is just concerned about it and he stops you from interacting with other's.You just can't judge a person for something he did which you didn't like. yes being misused by a girl during college day's,fortunately got over with it,faced it,and now..happy Best of luck RAJ
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
26 Mar 13
it's a pleasure sharing, Well one can't just say that a person who misuses is a smart person.They are under the impression that the person they are misusing are not aware of what they are doing.At times we react and at times we keep calm and just wait for the right time to come and then give them what they didn't expect.Well in some cases ,specifically when girl use boys,at times boys are aware of it,but some of them are strong enough to get hurt rather hurting the girl back by doing or saying something.It depends upon person to person. I am an Indian too,Was staying in a big city "Pune". As far as I've heard,in terms of proportion,Men were the most who misused women.Not that men are smarter,but they say that when your necessity and means are not getting fulfilled,you start looking for option,doesn't really matter if its a man or a woman.And most of the cases which are disclosed have found men to be taking advantage and not the women.Women,like always soft hearted,kind in nature,falls prey for such men and vice versa.I don't deny the fact that indian women are not smart,but when one starts praising a women for whatever reasons,they just blindly believe them without understanding the intention behind it. Like you said your husband married you for your looks,i hope he didn't just praised you like goddess before and you fell for him...did you..?
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
26 Mar 13
Well i can't imagine what you have gone through,But the way you are portraying things ,It makes me feel that you are going through a very rough phase of your life.Every person is entitled for his own opinion and so are you.I wonder if you have a personal life even after you are married.As we stay in a modern world,everyone has their own personal life and needs privacy at the same time,even if you are married. Like I said,people like you who are soft hearted and kind in nature really don't want to hurt others even if they are themselves getting hurt.I bet that you are a kind of person who will not say something wrong if someone has hurt you,you would not say anything but later you would sit alone and think about it and may be you also might have cried.Now ,that you have learnt you lesson to be strong and to be tough,I am sure you would be able to take firm decisions even if they are against someone and beneficial for you. There would be situations where you might have to fight for your right,so don't move back and take a stand.Being a woman doesn't mean you have to suffer,being a woman you deserve the respect which you are suppose to get, For which if you have to fight,go for it. Not to forget,people who are selfish are the most successful people in the world,so if you have to benefit something for yourself,its not bad being selfish. Would be an honor for me if i could be of any help,may be if you would like to share something where you think you need to take a decision on,or just a friend with whom you can share your feelings. Best of luck Take Care RAJ
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• India
25 Mar 13
thank you for sharing and your nice advice, anyway, how smart girl was who misuse a guy. I mean, I am soft nature, and I hurt if i misuse anybody, but as i am not doing i feel good at least another lady do that with some guys. ...... hmm.... kidding. it is not good to misuse others. as far as i live in india i have to confess that i have heard a lot about ladies who misuse their men. i mean i think here ladies are smarter than men in the way of cheating.. what do you think?
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
24 Mar 13
So looks like beauty become's curse for you and your friend. There are advantages and disadvantages of everything. You are beautiful that's good for you, but people misuse it or you get misused that's bad. You should be proud that your husband takes so much care of you. What else you want. Happy mylotting.
• India
25 Mar 13
thanks for sharing.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
25 Mar 13
The misuse of one's beauty also happens when one intentionally uses her beauty to achieve certain aims. I have seen some very beautiful ladies, just because that they are awfully beautiful, they would toy around people's love and even use people as they please just to get what they want. Of course, many guys fell in love and were willingly sacrificing everything for these girls. However, when the girls done taking advantage of these poor guys, they left and search for the next victims.
• India
25 Mar 13
so they are so smart ones. it is really good if all lady could be that much smart
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
24 Mar 13
hmmmm.. no I am not misusing my beauty. because I don't have to misuse at all. hahaha just joking. anyway, what kind of photos does her BF have? ohhh uhhhh did she pose in an appropriate way... beyond the way she should. that could be a problem
• India
25 Mar 13
yes, just that kind of photos.
@avers27 (31)
• Poland
24 Mar 13
I can understand you, beauty is very often misused. I do not understand the man who is keeping away from everybody I imagine this like he holds you in a capsule collider. I took this term from a Unity 3d games development, but here I mean seriously. When a capsule collides with someone a person inside it has problems. If it is true and not just a feeling it is surely a mistreatment.
• India
25 Mar 13
I am agree it is a mistreatment.