he is making passes at his friend's daughter.

@pomwango (1353)
Kenya
March 26, 2013 1:53am CST
i am listening to my younger sisters friend who wants to know what to do about her dad's friend.this man came to visit their home and after that started calling their home phone knowing her parents are away at work to chat with her.he at first pretended he wanted to help her in her career path but now he wants them to meet and he keeps insisting she should not tell her parents about it since its a suprise he wants to give them.she is just about 19 years and the man is fifty three.ofcourse i have warned her and told her she needs to tell her parents about him.i hope you also see the warning signs and that she should keep off this man,what do you think of this and what else can i tell her?
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10 responses
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
26 Mar 13
Oh my goodness, this is so cheap of that old man who is showing negative vibes at a girl who is almost of his daughter's age. i think she should inform her parents as soon as possible in order to avert any untoward incident to happen in the future. i know she must be very much confused regarding this but i am sure she would be out of this trouble very soon.
• China
26 Mar 13
I totally agree with you.And I think should tell the girl the man's real purpose and warn her clearly to avoid evil things.
@Pegasus72 (1898)
8 Apr 13
I remember having a friend that my older brothers thought were cute, you have to realize that my oldest brother has a son a year younger then me so he is a lot older then me. I would always say she isn't interested. I think she needs to tell her parents because it could become dangerous. Now with that being said my cousin when she was 16 married a man who was old enough to be her father and they had 3 children together.
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Mar 13
Hi, Old horse going for young grass, more like it. However, being three past the golden years is not that old, besides, older men has more charm than younger ones. Only problem if that old horse is out for a romp and is gone before the girl can count to three. I am wary of that thing about not telling his friend about his plans, something bad is brewing inside that horse for sure. Somebody get a lasso quick.
• Valdosta, Georgia
26 Mar 13
I absolutely agree with you, this guy sounds like a creeper for sure! She definitely should be telling her parents about him and try to stay away from him as much as possible. This guy sounds really creepy.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
26 Mar 13
I think you should argue that what kind of a surprise could a man like that plan, which he wants to keep that much a secret? Why does he think it's good for the parents? He just wants to keep it a secret, so he may seduce the girl, so they act as a couple in fron of the parents, and they can't do anything about it. He just seems really sneaky, and proper 53 year olds won't harass teenage people. Oh, and if he is a friend of the dad, why isn't he in such a good relationship with him to tell him about the fact he wants to get it on with her? Sneaky-sneaky-sneaky. She should be smarter and tell her parents.
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
27 Mar 13
This does not sound good! Since she told you about it, it is now your responsibility to convince her not to continue this anymore or at least tell her parents about what's going on.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
26 Mar 13
The fact that he doesn't want her to tell her parents is alarming...that she will soon be 19 years old makes this very dangerous for her. She needs to tell her parents before this gets out of hand. I wonder if she realizes how much danger she could be in here. How did he come to visit her home? Friends with her parents?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Mar 13
The Danger sign is clinking so fast! She really must tell her parents about it before anything bad happens to her. He might sound as if he means well, but knowing that he wouldn't want her parents know about him helping her is a bit strange.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
26 Mar 13
She should tell her parents and the rest of the world as well. And that old guy should not behave like a pedophile! She can make him clear as well she is not interested in him.
@yugocean (9965)
• India
26 Mar 13
That evil one is no friend of the girl's father, she must be afraid, so you should warn her father and make her comfortable with her parents.