What was the reason your parents punished you?

India
March 26, 2013 2:35am CST
well, it has become a wish for me ... wish my mother could give me a slap at least but as long as i remember , my mother did not punish me anytime and used to be so kind hearted one and even i used to get angry and she used to say sorry ..... i really wish , if sometimes my mother could be strict with me and should give me punishment.... I remember sometimes my father slap behind my neck as i was so straight forward girl and when i was angry.. i used to wear my backpack and collect my toys and say i am leaving here and bye forever.... so for that bad habit... my father sometimes slap me, but anytime i did not hurt as his hand was so soft... lol... how about you? do you remember that kind of memories? then what was the reason that your parents punish you?
10 responses
• Philippines
27 Mar 13
Me and my brothers used to give problems to my grand mother back when we were kids. Then my mom or my dad would swoop in and slap us where they can hit us for being rascals. They were so angry I could picture their head smoking.. ready to explode.
• India
28 Mar 13
hahaha, too naughty you were...
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
27 Mar 13
hi.. your mother is so kind. my parents they never hit me or slap me i don't know why i made a mistake but still they don't get mad before i think that i'm adopted. only my grandmother used hit me with the broom its so hurt. but my mother sometimes get mad at me she used belt to hit us.
• India
28 Mar 13
well, yes my mom is really kind hearted. and my dad also was kind but as he was a strict army man, sometimes used to feel if we are his soldiers.
• Japan
26 Mar 13
Once I got punished for telling lies. That was when I was in Junior school.
• India
26 Mar 13
so how was that?
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
27 Mar 13
I can't help but smile after reading your post. I remember the memories I had when I was a child. It is just that I am not as bold as you. My mom do sometimes hit us because we won't always listen to her and my siblings and I would always fight over household chores. But my father is very kind hearted, who never hurted us even once. But I think it is a nice thing to have that kind of parents. I'd be very sad if both my parents would have the same way of disciplining their child. I think they compliment each other. I think we're still lucky unlike those children whose parents need to work abroad to earn money. Like in the case of my husband, his father is working overseas eversince he was a baby. Her mom never hit or slap him even though he has done many crazy things in the past. So my husband have this attitude that he thinks he can do everything, and that he will always be forgiven because he is cute In short, he became a spoiled brat.
• India
28 Mar 13
nice sharing , thank you Dear.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
26 Mar 13
There have been a bunch of stuff, but I don't remember every little thing. Mostly my younger brother persuaded me of some adventure, and our parents scolded me because I was older (yeah, buy one year...). Then... drawing on the cupboard, not starting to study on time, not agreeing with them...
• India
28 Mar 13
that was happening to me too.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
26 Mar 13
Hi, In my childhood I was punished mainly because not studying and wasting time in playing. My mother never punished by beating or threshing. Her punishment was she stop to talking with me. But my father used to punish me strictly. The punishment may stand up out of the house for one hour, or slapping me, or beating with a stick. But he loved me also. He was always feeling sad after punishing me. He used to bring some favorite food for me at the night.
• India
26 Mar 13
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 Mar 13
Well lucky for me my parents never laid a hand on me, even a slap... but words hurt more and they do say a lot of hurtful words before when i did something wrong.
• India
26 Mar 13
well, for me it has become a wish if at least once my mom could punish me then maybe i could be better one now.... anyway, thank you for sharing.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Mar 13
Most of my childhood years, dad was either working abroad or in another province. So it was mom who would often deal with our misfits. I do remember her spanking me when I was a kid, and I knew why. It was because I was hard on my younger brother. I always wanted him to do things my way. And so we end up fighting, he would be crying and then will tell mom what I did.
• India
26 Mar 13
well, hahahaha, i do not knot the taste of spank but that is sweet punishment by mom.. i also wanted younger one do whatever i say and i was behaving strict with them....
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
26 Mar 13
Ha ha ha, well both your parents are so much opposite in nature. so sweet of your mother that she loves u a lot and even when its not her mistake she prefers apologizing and sorting out the issues. Besides even if your father beats u at times, all father loves their daughters very much. i have been beaten by my parents at times when i was very small but i am not able to memorize them ha ha ha.
• India
26 Mar 13
thanks for sharing.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
26 Mar 13
One thing I can always remember is because... I fell in love They were so over protective of me because I am the only girl among my siblings. My parents are both undergrad, so they do not want me also to be like them. But the punishment pays, I finished my degree and got a great job. But of course at the back of my mind, I know I can still have this even with a bf in college
• India
26 Mar 13