One call a day makes a woman happy.

China
March 27, 2013 8:01am CST
I think i am a common and normal woman, for i never have had any ambition for jobs but for family. The person i love most is my husband. We have been in love for 4 years before getting married and have been married for 6 years till now. We went together because of love. Although there were so many trouble we have been through, our hands still hold together tightly. Tough days made us upset and despaired, but they have gone. Recently, from the time i've ignored on, he have made at least one phone call a day. Sometimes i am teaching in classroom, sometimes i'm at meetings and usually i'm on my way home, no matter where am i and what i am doing, his call makes me very happy. He is a dull man and don't always say some sweet words to me. His calls are made to make me happy because he knows that i can feel his care. See, i'm such a woman who is quite easy to feel beatific. To me, a harmonious family is much more important than successful career. Family is my career!
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19 responses
• India
27 Mar 13
Even if my husband can't find the time to call me I can understand... I just want him to be able to take my call when I call him.. It's not that often and I call only when I seriously need him.. So far he has always answered my calls and been there for.. I am so happy and lucky to have him... Thanks to God...
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 13
that is it you are partners and you support each other. My hubby and I were like that too on.If I was nervous about a doctors appointment he would go with me. WE really were; each other support group
• China
27 Mar 13
Yeah, i think we are all lucky women for we get what we want. No matter what happen to our lives, if there is someone who can stand with us and hold our hands tightly, we are lucky and can go through all difficulties. Good luck to all female friends.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
27 Mar 13
Knowing that my husband has the time to check on how I am would surely make my day, as well. You are lucky to have him. Not all eomen can be blessed like you. I pray for more loving years together!
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 13
I re al.lyhu thin thats so sweet and so loving andnio h es not d ull at all. lol
• China
27 Mar 13
Thank you. I think i am a lucky woman. We couple love each other and live happily. But not all couples live the same way and not all men would like to do the same things to make their wife happy. Different people have different way of expressing. Love is so diversified.
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
27 Mar 13
What a beautiful sentiment. I agree wholeheartedly, but we are all so much more than just a family member.
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• China
27 Mar 13
Maybe you will think i am exaggerating if i say that i always feel like that he is part of my body, my mind and my life. But it is true. Although ten years passed, i can't stand his leaving.
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
27 Mar 13
I do not think you are exaggerating at all. True love is very deep.
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@FHKHKO (49)
• China
27 Mar 13
I really have no idea about it. My roommate calls his girlfriend every night. I don't have girlfriends so I don't konw why he can talk so long time. If it is me, I don't konw say what.But I guess it't must be so sweet to a woman. I hope you be happy!
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• China
27 Mar 13
When you have a girlfriend you will know the feeling. I have been with my husband for 10 years till May, and we can still talk continuously for any topic. I am happy for the woman surrounded by love will always be happy.
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• Philippines
27 Mar 13
Good you have just shared a happy family traits. For me if you love truly your husband there's no need for him to call daily enough that you have seen him everyday and he is healthy.
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• China
27 Mar 13
Maybe that's because i'm too sensitive a person. I can be happy for so trivial things. But if he is busy or for other reasons he can't call me, it's ok too. I won't be upset or something else. Love is a kind of emotion can't be controlled by anyone.
28 Mar 13
No, i don't agree that one call a day makes a women happy, for example my girlfriend just gives me a miscall, after that i have to reply to her other wise she thinks that i don't have any feelings towards her and i don't care for her ! so, that miscall is an alarm from my point of view.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
28 Mar 13
Your post just made my heart melt. It's great to know that there are still couples out there with the basic love ~ not the material love. These days it's tough to have this type of love. Cherish your love and let him know that you feel his love with his calls. Awww.. that just made me soft on the inside. hehehe.. Have a great mylot experience ahead!
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
28 Mar 13
It never makes or made me happy to receive or make a phonecall. I don't like to pick up the Phone (seems to run into our family since my children hate to pick up the Phone as well or make a call). My ex called me a billion times a day which I found very annoying (feels like being controlled which turned out to be right in the end). Family is not a carreer.. carreers will end one day and then you feel useless or abandoned or a big nobody. So better develop yourself in other ways so you will be happy with the person you are and Always will be, with or without a carreer.
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• China
28 Mar 13
Due to you two have been married for 6 years and your husband still make at least one call to you per day,so actually your husband is so sweet and not a dull man,he just show his love in a different way. By the way,you are such a lucky woman.
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@tocquevil (157)
• China
28 Mar 13
may you two live together till old and grey
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• China
28 Mar 13
I think you know how to spend your life happily. As a very famous Chinese saying goes, holding your hands and aging with me. Understanding how to live with family and having a happy life is the destination of life. I appreciate it. I can feel your feeling when you answer the call form your husband. I will learn to be a woman like you. Thank you for sharing. Love you!
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28 Mar 13
good to hear that your still with him inspite of many troubles. I think you two should talk in some place you've never been, and try to share your thoughts and feelings. Tell him that when he calls you it really makes you feel good. o Does he know it?
28 Mar 13
Yeah very true. A call is good for women, whether you just say HI or just say How are you? and drop the phone but it effects a lot in women world. Whether she is wife or mother or sister. You should call every women in your life just say atleast Hi...
@merylpan (37)
28 Mar 13
it sounds so sweet and I admire the love between you and your husband
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Mar 13
hi Ivchloe I think thats a really admirable trait to care for your family and I am sure your children and husband are happy with you too.Being a stay at home mom is a 24 hour day seven days a week and I feel that all stay at home moms should be congratulated for all that they do. I love it that your hubby makes a one call a day to you as thats so sweet and so loving.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
28 Mar 13
I agree so much! I've been together with my boyfriend 10 months, and I really love him. Everytime I see his name on my phone screen, I still feel giddy and happy and excited, just as after our first date. I just love hearing his voice throughout the day.
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
27 Mar 13
so sweeeet it is nice to know at after 10 years of togetherness you still have this thing. 'sweetness' and romance. most couple lose this after a year of marriage. this is "must" to keep.. how nice. and your avatar fits this discussion and fits you
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• India
7 Apr 13
you are a great woman , wish you to have a really happy life with your husband hand to hand..
• China
3 Apr 13
Hi, I quite agree with you. Family is a very important career. My husband also call me everyday. Through such way, he express his care and love. Having a harmonious family help man or women succeed in their careers.