"Word of Honor"

Philippines
March 27, 2013 8:12am CST
Some people often uses this quote as an excuse so they can be given a chance or make up for unfulfilled promises. Especially about things that he/she should have done or money owed that should have been paid on the agreed date. I guess I have done the same thing, having promised something to someone which I have not fulfilled. Having thought of what could be the outcome or the effects it might cause, now I'm more of an action, more than words if possible. How about you my fellow mylotters, have you been into the same situation before or you just do it without promising?
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13 responses
@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
11 Mar 21
When i say something, i always mean it.
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• Philippines
23 Mar 21
yes, that is very good of you !
@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
2 Mar 21
My bond is my word, but I am not promising or talking and no action
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• Philippines
9 Mar 21
that is very good of you. wish more people are like that.
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
27 Mar 13
I do not promise but i just say i will try. And do it. I would even borrow money if i don't have the money yet, so i can pay as i promised, to keep my word of honor.
• Philippines
30 Mar 13
Yeah your right, it's better to say I will try than promised a thing which your not sure of. But there are some people who promised, just to escape a compromising situation and give someone hope even though it's uncertain. This is where credibility of that person comes in if she/he can really be trusted with his/her words.
• Philippines
1 Apr 13
Yes, once you have broken a promise, it's very hard to convince a person the second time. So, I guess the best thing to do is not to promise anything, so that the person concern would not hope.
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
1 Apr 13
That's true stanley. That's why , when someone promised me and didn't keep his/her word, i never would believe in her/ him again. No word of honor!
@roshigo58 (4856)
• Pune, India
31 Mar 13
Hi, I give promise to someone if I am sure about keeping it. Sometimes when I can't complete the promise I feel guilty about that so as you said we should be a man of action and not the man of words. We should always think before speaking. If we break the promise we may lose the trust of others.
• Philippines
1 Apr 13
Yes, giving your words can be likened to a sacred thing, once you have said it you must keep it. This is were the credibility of a person comes in. Keeping what you have promised would mean you can be trusted.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
30 Mar 13
Every time I hear that, I know its bad news. My ex husband said it several times. Those thing she attatched to it never happened. i hate hearing I give you my word of honor....
• Philippines
30 Mar 13
I'm sorry to hear that your ex husband hadn't kept his promises to you. I guess some of us have experienced the same thing too and because of that we believed that most of those who promised especially in a relationship should not be taken seriously. It should be done not promised.
• Philippines
1 Apr 13
Yeah you did the right thing, ha ha ha. He really deserves it.
• Mexico
30 Mar 13
Yes, but his lose. I got rid of him, after all those word of honors. They meant nothing. Have a super saturday there.
@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
27 Mar 13
it is better than not to promise than breaking a promise. i know the promises are free but doesn't qualify the breaking them is OK. so.. yes better not promise if one can't keep words.
• Philippines
29 Mar 13
Yes, that is my principle at present not to promised anything if I'm not really sure that I can keep it. And if ever, I'll inform the person involve beforehand if my promise will not be consummated. Most especially if the promised involves money I owed to them.
@Mavic123456 (21891)
• Thailand
29 Mar 13
that's good. me I have to do what I told... I need to keep my simple and humble word here. otherwise I will lose my credibility
• Philippines
29 Mar 13
Yeah, what's involve in such a situation is the credibility of a person. We could earn the trust of a person if we kept our words.
@marguicha (230351)
• Chile
28 Mar 13
I don`t think that I promise a lot, at least not now. Maybe when I was younger, I promised more. Remember that we grew in oaths of all sorts, including marriage oaths. Now I think that I will do as much as I can. I can`t do more and I do not know how much I`ll be able to do until I actually do it.
• Philippines
30 Mar 13
Yes, promising involves the credibility of a person. Trust is something that should not be taken for granted. I do the same thing as long as I can remember but I have learned my lessons now, not to promised if I'm not sure of making it.
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
28 Mar 13
I try to keep my word, but sometimes, there are unavoidable circumstances along the way, And with that, I am truly sorry. But I do tell right away to a person I have promised if there would be a bit of delay so that he/she won't have bad thoughts about me.
• Philippines
30 Mar 13
Yes, it's better not to promise at all if we aren't sure of it. Sometimes there are situations that keep us on fulfilling our promised but informing the person beforehand so the person involves would not hope for it. Now if I can help it, I just did it instead of promising.
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
27 Mar 13
I can't stand and understand people who make all kind of promises but don't keep their word. I Always do but I also learned (after years) that it's better for me not to promise anything anymore. Because a promise is a heavy weight on my shoulders, I Always keep it no matter how ill I am, no matter if I have to push my children aside. Something other people would never do. I never say: I give you my word of honour. I also never say: You can trust me or count on me. These are things you have to prove/show by your attitude. The more frequently people would say this to me, the less I trust them.
• Philippines
30 Mar 13
I guess it's the only thing we could say if we caught in such a situation. Like an automatic response so as not to talked more about the subject. I have done the same thing before and it bothers me much if I have not kept my words. Also, we'll lost the trust of these people if we keep doing it. Now I never promised to do or make something if I'm not so sure I can keep it.
@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
28 Mar 13
Perhaps when I was young, I did have some promises that meant to be broken. When maturation came, I had come to realized that it should not be. I tried not to make any promises, especially if it is impossible.
• Philippines
30 Mar 13
I guess most of us have experienced the same thing, making promises that have been broken. So the best we could do is not to promised if we are not sure of making it. I have my share of those people who have promised especially about the money they owe me but up to this day, they have not kept it.
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
28 Mar 13
There are people who are so good in promises but not keeping it , they always have that convincing power but it is only up to there and its again broken. I believed it is so important to have this 'word of honor ' in a person because it tells what kind of person you are . It signifies ones conviction in life .
• Philippines
30 Mar 13
Our credibility as a person would greatly affects if we don't keep our promises. We'll also lost the trust of that person if we kept doing it. But there are some who does this even though they are not sure of it. I guess it's there way to escape the guilt unless they have kept their words. I don't know, but there are some who are really emotionless even they hurt the feelings of others for not keeping their words.
• Philippines
28 Mar 13
Sometimes I give my promises unfortunately there were times when I really was not able to fulfill some of them so the lesson should be not to promise because you don't know what will come tomorrow. Even if you plan to do what you said but there are some accidental circumstances that hinder you from doing them. So the best thing to do is just be a man of action not of words.
• Philippines
30 Mar 13
Yes, if we are caught in such a situation, our prompt reply would be to promise to escape such a predicament. But doing so would only make it more embarrassing if we don't keep that promise. Our credibility would be compromised.
@Dias14 (176)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 13
Yes, it's out of most people, always giving a statement like that, maybe the goal is only to convince someone, if it means better met, if not to say it's only a mere greeting. I realized, I'd like to say that, I promise to do the convincing. But I sometimes do without promising if someone was very kind to me.
• Philippines
30 Mar 13
Yes, doing what we have promised would earn the trust of that person. I guess, some did it just for the sake of saying it, giving hope to the person that you will keep that promise. Not keeping your words could also mean, we'll lost the trust of that person.