Drunken Uncle

@Deepak2J (1177)
India
April 1, 2013 9:36am CST
My uncle is in his 40s. But he drinks too much from over 5 years. We all try to prevent him since that time, including my father. But, he didn't listened to anybody. Now, every evening he comes home drunk and shouts too much about many things and don't eat any food in night. He is getting thinner. My aunt(her wife), cries every night for his this type of behaviour, but no change. I don't know how to stop him from drinking, as indian people don't like drinking.
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6 responses
mariaperalta
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
1 Apr 13
Sounds like a friend of mine, you lives in the house near me here. hes always drunk, and yelling at people as they walk by. If I ever see him and hes not drinking hes a great guy.
Deepak
@Deepak2J (1177)
• India
1 Apr 13
Generally my uncle drinks in evening too much. Sometimes in day also
mariaperalta
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
1 Apr 13
wow, my ex husband was like that. I hated him for that.
Deepak
@Deepak2J (1177)
• India
1 Apr 13
most of his friends already quit smoking. But, I don't know why, he is not.
natliegleb
@natliegleb (5173)
• India
1 Apr 13
that is quite common and also most part of the time ,they stick with their habits and hard to finally get it over with for sure
sid556
@sid556 (30953)
• United States
1 Apr 13
There isn't much you can do to stop your Uncle from drinking other than not tolerating his behavior. Your Aunt needs to give him an ultimatum to either get help or get out. No one should have to put up with his verbal abuse.
ARIES1973
@ARIES1973 (11944)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Apr 13
Only if your uncle decided to stop that this problem will be solved. But you could help him out by trying to know the reason why he is doing that thing and perhaps if this has something to do with a problem, then you can help him figure out a solution. We can never change other people, we can only change ourselves. Have a wonderful day!
roshigo58
@roshigo58 (4856)
• Pune, India
1 Apr 13
Hi, I feel very sorry for your uncle. The drunken people are very troublesome for their family. Your aunt's life become very miserable because of your uncle. Drunken people behave very badly and it is very difficult to control them. You should keep him in rehabilitation center.
Deepak
@Deepak2J (1177)
• India
1 Apr 13
There is no rehabilitation center near to us. It is far away
srisahara
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 13
Hi friend, usually a drunken man is caused by some problems in his life. If you want to help him, try to learn what wrong his life. If you have find it, try to found the solution with his wife. Most of drunken people will stop drinking when their life happy. Find out the problem behind his habit is the best way to stop him to drink. Have a nice day.