Have you made promises that are difficult to keep?

@allknowing (130175)
India
April 3, 2013 10:48pm CST
"The woods are lovely, dark and deep, But I have promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep." The above quote aptly suits me at this moment. I promised Hatley I would check about how many best responses she has got and what is the percentage against her responses . I started doing this hours ago. I have kept her profile page open and go there as and when I get time. Oh boy! What have I done? I don't think I will get to her last page even if my day ends! But I will not give up! Have you ever been in a quandary such as this one!
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
4 Apr 13
I think we all do. Might be a reason I dont promise very often. As I feel bad if I have to break one.
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@allknowing (130175)
• India
4 Apr 13
One should weigh the task that is ahead. I did not do that while promising Hatley that I would check for her best responses. I do have a task indeed. But I will see to its end!
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• Mexico
4 Apr 13
Very true, I just hate to disapoint anyone is all. Better to stay out of trouble.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
5 Apr 13
I think when we try not to make too much promises that we know we cannot keep in life and it is always good to do the promises that we make.
@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
4 Apr 13
I saw you made the promise to a couple users there. But when one of them was Hatley, I was like... I wonder how many BR out of her over 51k responses; and the counter only move four pages maximum at a time...
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@allknowing (130175)
• India
4 Apr 13
Must you rub it in sishy! Leave me alone! But I bet I will complete that task no matter what.
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@allknowing (130175)
• India
4 Apr 13
It was tough but I did it. At my first attempt I deleted the pages by mistake. I had already reached up to 250. I started all over again but succeeded.
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@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
4 Apr 13
I'm sure you will, after going through hundreds of pages at least...
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
4 Apr 13
I love the quotation. where does it come from? I have a thing about promises as I almost consider them to be sacred so I do not make promises lightly, and to my knowledge have always kept a promise - especially to children. There are probably many instances where it proved difficult but I just cannot remember any specific instance
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
4 Apr 13
I haven't read rober Frost in years. Thank for this. I love poetry and se to write some - a few were published. Yes, we do get a sense of satisfaction when we have kept our promises. You are so right
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
4 Apr 13
Sorry - I cannot yet use three fingers on my left hand so make frequent errors. Must download spell check
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@allknowing (130175)
• India
4 Apr 13
This is a quote by Robert Frost. Many of us believe in keeping promises once they are made. Once fulfilled they give us a nice feeling.
@pals101 (2010)
• Philippines
4 Apr 13
Hahaha. Such dedication my friend. You are coming soon. Coming to break the promise.. Keep me updated for the percentage of your task..
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@pals101 (2010)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
just making you smile my friend. I know you can do it. I think you are almost there????? GO go go go
@allknowing (130175)
• India
6 Apr 13
It is stale news. That project has been completed long time ago. You better go and find out!
@allknowing (130175)
• India
4 Apr 13
Some friend I have here! I need encouragement For a participation of 60000 responses it is no joke flipping through best responses. I am nowhere near the last page. But tenacity being my middle name,I will not give up.
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@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
4 Apr 13
No, I have not experienced such a predicament and if ever, maybe I would be sad and feel guilty even though I knew I exerted all my efforts to make it possible. Usually I don't promise anything if I can't keep it. Aside from losing my credibility, trust is something that is hard to earned back if I have not fulfilled such a promise. Anyway, I just hope you can satisfy Hatley for what you have promised her.
@allknowing (130175)
• India
4 Apr 13
What I promised Hatley I fulfilled. It was a tough task with 60000 responses which meant greater number of best responses. It took me a long time but I am glad I finished the task. Today's generation is famous for giving false promises. Just a few days ago my neighbour who has come from abroad promised me that he would drop in but he did not. I did not ask him but he himself said he would. When they cannot keep to their promise why make it. It upsets me. Never promise something which we cannot keep.
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• Philippines
5 Apr 13
Oh that's really a feat, good job my friend. The time you have spent pays off, without a doubt. I'm sure hatley would be elated because you have kept your promise to her.
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@Alechin (217)
• Slovak Republic
4 Apr 13
I am the type of a persona, who promises first and thinks second. Thats what gets me into trouble often... Cause I usually regret the promises I made and at times even break them (usually when its about nothing serious... only going to a pub with someone etc....). People generally get angry at me for being like that, but I just haven't learned to say NO. Ill have to change that. I'm lazy and like heavily lazy at times, which also gets into the way.
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@allknowing (130175)
• India
4 Apr 13
That can be very annoying as others would make their plans depending on you and then you let them down. Very bad Alechin. Since you are aware of this I am sure you will do something about it. As for me if I have made a promise, rain or shine, I will stick to it.
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@allknowing (130175)
• India
5 Apr 13
That again is totally in your hands. It is odd that you say yes when you know it is a no!
@Alechin (217)
• Slovak Republic
5 Apr 13
Well you undoubtedly are right. I should stick to my promises. But as I said, the most important thing for me would be learning to say NO. And not always agreeing. Or at least saying maybe. :)
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
5 Apr 13
I think it is always good not to make too many promises. If one makes promises, one should try as far as possible to keep the promises.
@allknowing (130175)
• India
5 Apr 13
Do you make promises and never keep. Can you tell us about it?
• United Kingdom
4 Apr 13
No, I would consider if I can make out of the promise, if it's too difficult to me, I would rather refuse it.Because it would be a very bad feeling to me when I find I can't keep a promise.
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@allknowing (130175)
• India
4 Apr 13
That is indeed a wise thing to do. As they look before you leap! Right?
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@allknowing (130175)
• India
4 Apr 13
typo - Please read as '...as they say look before......'
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@quieley (316)
• Philippines
4 Apr 13
Yes, we all do. Every time I made one and could't fulfill it I became guilty, and lose someone's trust. I think it i better if we don't make promises when we're happy. And never swear or make sudden decision when we're sad.
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@allknowing (130175)
• India
4 Apr 13
Sometimes we do not weigh the situation and on the surface they seem to be achievable. As you say we all have this experience at some time in our life. At the moment, I am going through it, but I shall keep to my promise
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@MrGhost (550)
4 Apr 13
I never make any such promise which I may not be able to keep and I also believe no one should make any absurd promise just to please someone.
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@allknowing (130175)
• India
4 Apr 13
Sometimes what happens is that it looks all easy. It is only when one starts getting into whatever that promise is one realises how difficult it is to accomplish it. As is happening to me at this moment. I have promised Hatley that I will work on her best responses but it never seems to end!
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• Philippines
4 Apr 13
Most of the promises I've broken are my promises to myself. That's probably better since that means I didn't disappoint somebody else. On the other hand, that also means that I get really frustrated with myself. Most of the promises I've broken are something like, "I'm not going to procrastinate anymore" or "I'm going to get straight A's this term." I try to avoid keeping promises to other people. I only promise if I am more than sure that I can keep my promise.
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@allknowing (130175)
• India
4 Apr 13
Procrastination is the worst of all crimes against oneself. I too do that with me. I put off things that can wait but sometimes when things pile up it becomes impossible to attend to them but attend I have to. Your thought for others is good in that you do not promise something that you cannot do. Some give false promises which can be frustrating for the one whom a promise is made!
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@scubapro (1051)
• Gifu, Japan
5 Apr 13
hey i liked the topic so much,i am interested in this topic in japan there is a very bad culture about promises,they say kuchi dake,it means they just say but generally never make it real i hate that in japan,some people or my friends give me promises about going to parties or doing some stuff together but generally they don t do i presonally dont give many promisese,because i am kind of promise maker person,if i give promises i have to do thats why i dont give many promises, happy mylotting
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@allknowing (130175)
• India
5 Apr 13
I normally keep to all promises. The case in point is working on Hatley's best responses. It was a tough task but I kept my promise. The only promise I have yet to keep is suggesting something for my friend who is losing hair. I read somewhere about a cure. I still cannot find it. But I have it in my mind. I hate those who makes promises and do not keep them as most just say it knowing fully well at that point in time itself that they will not keep them!
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