Breaking up.... go you always tell the truth?

Well i have been rude while ending the relationships but i never did it purposely ,i just try to be candid and it goes wrong.May be the reason is most of the times i came to know few things about my partner which gave me the hint that i will be dumped sooner or later so i decided to end it much early.I just put up the things i got to know and then i just say ,you are going to dump me anyways so lets finish it right now,why wait for later.Best wishes.

Many reasons. I can't trust him anymore after he admitted to me that he almost cheated on me with other girls. it really bothered me. I couldn't see him the same way anymore. And I hated myself for not even noticing even just a little. I was blindly trusting him. Also, I have become so attached to him, that everyday in my life is about him and my freedom is limited because of him. I can't make more friends, guy friends, I can't even hang out with my girl friends because he is upset about it. While he can is free to do so with any of his friends. He's unfair. And recalling it all now pisses me off. It's a good thing my eyes opened and then I dumped him. And even more, he proved that he is a cheat, because he tried to look for other girls after cooling off with him which was actually a trial period. I did not tell him exactly everything. I just told him that I think the relationship is not good anymore.

I always wanted to be as honest as possible so that he will not try to convince me to try making things work again. I really try so hard to hang onto a relationship. Even if I am hurting, still I try to make it work. But when it hits a certain point wherein I need to move on, there really is no turning back for me. So I make it clear why I had to make that decision- the one reason I told my ex was that he was becoming too dependent on me and that I also need to focus on my studies which I have neglected in the past year of our relationship and if I still hang on to our relationship with him not changing his ways, I'm doomed. My dad had to work abroad just to send me to College and I failed 3 subjects in one semester which my dad doesn't deserve. So instead of waiting for a yet another downfall for me, I had to get out of the relationship fast.

I didnt have to give mine a reason. After 4 or 5 years of abuse. Im sure he knew why I was leaving him.

i think its good to break up with the truth otherwise your partner may never realise their short comings,its better to just lay out the bare truth,if you are leaving someone and you lie on the reason he may think he has room to make up and you want out say the truth so that it ends or so that if there was a misunderstanding you can work it out.