Girly, Ultra girly.... or NOT girly?

@mommyboo (13174)
United States
April 5, 2013 4:11pm CST
This is a question for men mostly - what is your preference for your friends or significant others? Do you prefer women who are a little girly, REALLY girly, or NOT girly? Also, what do you consider those things to be? I am probably somewhat girly, I like long hair and I usually do it. I wear a lot of workout clothes but I find cute ones. I'm not the type to just get up and roll out of bed and not care, but neither do I have to spend 3 hours getting ready, I don't really like ruffles and frills, in fact I prefer not to dress up at all unless it's like black tie. My morning routine takes about 15-20 minutes but I can squeeze it down if I have to.
9 responses
@AidaLily (1450)
• United States
5 Apr 13
Hmmm... I like them slightly taller than me and somewhat girly? I don't mind a girl who only takes 30 minutes to get ready (I take 15-20 unless I am going out then I take an hour). I prefer girls that wear cute skirts and sometimes high heels in the summer or a pair of slightly raised sandals and little to no makeup. Cute medium to long hair as well. I don't like manly looking girls or girls who aren't girly enough to wear a bra or dress themselves up even if it is just a simple sweater and jeans in the winter. So I would have to say between a little girly and REALLY girly is my ideal.
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@andy77e (5156)
• United States
5 Apr 13
Full on girl. 100% woman, through to the core. The more 'guyish' they are, the less am I attracted to them. Of course there are things considered girly that I don't like. High heels is a mystery to me. If the girl isn't comfortable, or can barely walk, she needs to ditch that. Just be a woman. You don't need props and extras to make yourself a girl.
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@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
5 Apr 13
exactly! i am a girl, but i agree that women makes their lives more uncomfortable than it already has to be.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
9 Apr 13
I know my husband would say he wants me girly, but able to change a tire if needed. I love him dearly, but he isn't very handy!! LOL
@dawnald (85148)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Apr 13
Girly is for weddings... :)
6 Apr 13
Guys come on! What about a girl who aint affraid to get her hands dirty? Fishing? Whiskey? Maybe guys like girly girls because they are worried that the tough girl will show them up. Have you guys ever seen a girl with no makeup on and thought WOW she is hot? I am not a guy of course, but if I were I think I would want somebody who could hold their own, and be able to hang out with the boys sometimes. She would have to be hot in her jeans and tank top.
@AyaVuu (1)
• United States
6 Apr 13
Not girly. I went through a college that was 95% male, bootcamp, and many years of living in an MMORPG. All places that lack females, and having gone through them I've come to dislike "girly" girls. Why? Because the girls that I have met there have all been really cocky and seem to give less of a crap about ignoring a guy knowing that they'll get special attention due to their rarity. And because of that, they seem to act even more girly than normal. Could just be bad luck but that's what I experienced. Obviously can't speak for most guys since it seems to work for them, and I think most guys would normally find the opposite affect going through those places. Though I'm not so naive to think that just because a girl is "girly" that she would be like the ones previous, but the flag does come to me as red and it's just harder to get passed it. So preferable, non-girly for me.
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@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Apr 13
Hi, In these times when the line between the genders seem to go blurry, like girls wearing pants and acting like boys and boys wearing skirts and acting like girls, it would be more preferable if boys and girls should get back to where they belong and act like one. Skirts and bra for girls and jeans for boys, that's all. Simple isn't it? I like it that way.
• Pakistan
6 Apr 13
Oh its a bid problem for girls to become ready in less time. If you feel that your long hair disturb and increase your time so you can band your hair at night and just do little bit comb your hair in the morning. And you can also ready your work at night it will shrink your time.
• India
6 Apr 13
u rise a very true question, man also think in similar way, the word women also include the word - men. in the similar way, now women r changing, they r becoming men.boy r searching a girl inside girl. but girls r changing, they are becoming boys. when, a girl is real girl, or little girl, they feel comfortable with that girl. long hairs, girlish dresses, behaviour, shyness. boys like that in agirl