she's selling her nice to the american
By iluvusabado
@iluvusabado (2560)
Philippines
April 7, 2013 1:49am CST
my aunt who lives in the US will arrive on friday. she's bringing with her a male american who she wants to marry her niece. the problem is that her niece already has a family. she's not married but she has a 6-year old daughter with a man she lives with. the husband doesn't know about it yet.
how did i find out? her nephew consulted an albularyo neighbor to make a spell or potion to make the couple separate.
i understand that she wants a good future for her niece. but with the way she's doing it, she's destroying a family. how will the child feel if her parents separate? i feel like she's selling her niece to the american.
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8 responses
@Alisatan (190)
• Hefei, China
7 Apr 13
I am surprised, why her niece has not married but has a family. Why don't they marry? Do they feel happy as a couple? Maybe your aunt just want your niece to be happy? I really don't know what happens, so I can not comment on this appropriately.
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@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
Maybe her niece is not at the appropriate age to marry. Just a thought.
@iluvusabado (2560)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
they are not married yet but their relationship is going well i guess. they may not be rich but they are quite happy. they are old enough to decide on their own.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
The question is, did your cousin knows the plan of your Aunt beforehand. About the American, did he knew all about your Aunt's plan playing a matchmaker to her niece.
You have said that your cousin had a daughter and is living with the child's father. We knew your Aunt's intention for her niece but she already had a partner and it's sure is a big problem. And besides, I think this will be the first time the American and your cousin will meet. I don't know but I think it's not right.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
For me, I guess it's not right making the decision for her niece. Even her intention is good, I don't think it's proper for her and also to the American, making him believe that her niece will accept him.
@iluvusabado (2560)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
i agree with you. her niece already has a life of her own with her family. she shouldn't just intrude her life to change it with what she wants.
@iluvusabado (2560)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
my cousin just knew it just days ago after her aunt told her that she will come back to the philippines.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
It really looks like she's selling her niece.
I also understand her intention- but destroying a relationship/family is not the best solution.
I just hope she won't regret anything after this.
@iluvusabado (2560)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
well, she knows what she wants. only time will tell how devastating she;s done.
@bryanwmc (1051)
• Malaysia
7 Apr 13
i may just understand if it is shown that the niece is suffering some mistreatment from her boyfriend but if it is not the case and they love each other then it will seem to be wrong to separte them, it will do more harm than good , but then again , if money and a chance of a prousperous love with an american takes precedence ,there really is much to say, still, who can say for sure she will be loved or opposite if she marries the american who may even be a middle aged bachelor or has gone thru a few wives already
@iluvusabado (2560)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
i agree with you, bryan. who knows what kind of man this american is? will he really give a good life to my cousin? how about the husband who loved her for years?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
I think that your aunt gone too far for meddling with your cousin's life. I mean, she already has a partner and with a kid. Why would she do such a thing? Is the guy whom your cousin is living with treat her unfairly?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
The more reason for the aunt not to interfere with the life of her niece.
@iluvusabado (2560)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
the guy is good. he works for his family. though they are not really rich. but still, you can see that he really loves his family.
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
7 Apr 13
That is just so wrong in all accounts. Besides, what makes her think that by marrying an American her niece will have a better future? A better future cannot be determined by the race of nationality of one's spouse. That is such a twisted way of thinking. I hope her niece will stand her ground and choose whatever will make her happy and not be bullied into making a decision that she really doesn't want to make.
@Kementari (138)
• Canada
7 Apr 13
I must agree. It is totally racist in thinking her niece will have a better future with an American man. I think her niece will stick her ground because she needs to think about what is best for her daughter and self and from the sounds of it, it is being with the daughter's father. Even though they are not married does not indicate that she is unhappy, it just means it hasn't happened yet. Even if it doesn't, if the parents get along then that is what is best for the child. The fact that her aunt thinks bringing in a total stranger is even a good idea is barbaric, and furthermore no one just gets married like that anymore...
She has a choice and I think I would feel very appalled at this type of "plan" ... no one knows what is best for you except you.
@iluvusabado (2560)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
well i just hope that my cousin will not be manipulated by my aunt. it's obviously my aunt's desire to match her up with the foreigner.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
Ouch! This is some gruesome plan of your aunt. Even if she wanted a brighter future for her niece, I think its appropriate for her to marry a person whom she do not even know and love.
@iluvusabado (2560)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
that's so true. some of our relatives are even saying maybe she got paid by the american to do something that terrible.
@dagami (1158)
• Rome, Italy
7 Apr 13
the family of this girl will not get destroyed if she refuses to marry this american. and besides, i don't really think that this american is coming to marry the girl. people don't get married at first sight.
i don't believe in the efficacy of potions and spells. if the couple separates, then this means that they had their reasons. a strong relatuonship will not be easily broken. if they really love each other, they will survive this.
@iluvusabado (2560)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
well, i won't detest your beliefs. but knowing the family of the girl for years, i won't be surprised if she goes with the person with money. they really are like that.
