How to Tell Your Wife You Love Her Without Saying A Word

@taheraa (1545)
Giza, Egypt
April 7, 2013 2:49am CST
Over the years, not just at the beginning of a marriage, you must show your wife how much you care about her. To keep the spark alive, try showing your wife how much you love her instead of just saying it. There are many things you can do on a daily basis that show how much you cherish and respect her. You might be surprised at how little effort it takes to let your wife know you love her without saying a thing. Please Share your idea for this topic.
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@quieley (316)
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
As a wife, I still want my husband to be always open about his feeling towards me. I find it sweet and romantic every time he said he loves me. Though actions are more important. He cares too much about me that even doubts can't meddle in our relationship.
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@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
8 Apr 13
Yes, actions are more important. It is better in the love to match the words with action.
• India
7 Apr 13
Hi taheraa. I think you are right. I am not married yet. But I completely agree with you. I think the best way to do is to just hug her every time you leave for work and when you come back from work. I couldn't think of any better way. I do that to my girlfriend. I am always quite busy with my schedule so I am not able to give enough time to her. But I always hug her to show that I love her as I always did. Anyways have a nice day !! SuperShames
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
8 Apr 13
Yes, you're right, but how do you see your life together, with such a large amount of hugs.
• India
8 Apr 13
Hi taheraa. Well twice a day is not too much to ask. If you feel that she might get used to it and will not feel that it is special. Then try not hugging for one day.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
9 Apr 13
It is important, the other is to feel love when you hugging, and not to do so routinely.
• Pamplona, Spain
7 Apr 13
Hiya taheraa, Not only at the start of marriage I feel there are times vulnerable times for a woman when she is very likely not to feel herself altogether. One after just having had a child just when a woman needs the most rest most often she is forced to go back to work or participate in heavy work around her she if she has been brought up like a lot of women to feel that she is lazy and so on and make her feel bad about resting. This is one time I feel that a wife needs to feel more secure even though she has the attention of the family in part she needs extra love from the one closest to her and that is usually the Husband. Her birthday and other times I feel are good for us to feel more loved by having gifts bought for us too. Just my idea as I have had children and this was when I felt the most vulnerable in all my life.xxx
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
7 Apr 13
Hi, lovinangelsinstead: I'm sure, you like all female, that your sense as well your your judgment will be , more honest in such subjects. I tell you, with may participatory me in the opinion that true love lasts, despite the passage of time. The truth in love to be one, but its forms change with time. My best regards.
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• Pamplona, Spain
7 Apr 13
Hello taheraa, Right on as us girls need much much more support during those first few difficult weeks more than any other. Can be honest because like so many millions of women its what I have had to live you see. So more attention when we are going through this phase is much more welcome I surely could have welcomed it I can tell you that personally. True love if your loved one is far away from you at those crucial times can be quite tough as well this was in my case.xxx
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
8 Apr 13
Hello lovinangel: I'm with you, if we are far from true love, because of the difficulty of life.Should at least be approaching this love, by making us sincerity in our dealings with others.
@cherigucchi (6467)
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
If you are familiar with the song of Bryan Adams, "have you Ever Really Loved a Woman" it actually encapsulates the ways women want to be loved by their men. Women want to feel like they are always wanted and convince her that you are going to last forever. If a man is not really that demonstrative then he is going to be in a lot of trouble.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
7 Apr 13
Hi, cherigucchi: Please .... Is it possible to Remember Me the words of this song for the singer Bryan Adams, "Have you ever really loved a woman." ? Because I do not want to go to a lot of trouble.
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
here are some of the most important lines in the song. hope it helps... "To really love a woman, to understand her, you got to know her deep inside Hear her every thought, see every dreams and give her wings when she wants to fly And when you find yourself lyin helpless in her arms, you know you really love that woman... when you love a woman, you tell her that she's really wanted when you love a woman you tell her that she's the one she needs somebody to tell her that its gonna last forever! So tell me have you ever really, really ever loved a woman? To really love a woman, let her hold you till you know how she needs to be touched You've got to breathe her, really taste her till u feel her in your blood And when can you see the unborn children in her eyes You know you really loved a woman... You've got to give her faith, hold her tight, a little tenderness, better treat her right...she will be there for you taking good care of you.." Is it difficult?
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@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
8 Apr 13
Thanks a lot. No, it is not difficult. It is our choice, either to live our lives in a happy, or we live in unhappiness. Is not difficult, it's just a participation, commitment and respect for others, all brings them together love.
• United States
8 Apr 13
a beautiful card , one rose , also a love letter from you. simple ways are sometimes the best. a going out to dinner with a special song just for her..
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
10 Apr 13
" A special song just for her ", let me ask " Who sing the song " ?.
• United States
11 Apr 13
maybe a singer you hear ing the past you both like. or maybe you yourself or write in your own words like poetry. a love song, caring and loving forever yours (that would be a good start)
@Iriene88 (5346)
• Malaysia
8 Apr 13
Hahaha ... I truly hope my husband will read this. There is no sweet and wonderful small or big surprises from him. Life is boring and I used to complain to him that he no longer love me as there is no action to show his love to me. I totally agree with you, it just need to take some little effort and we will definitely appreciate it. I used to call him NATO : No action talk only!
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
9 Apr 13
Why do not you starts on your part, perhaps it may be possible to learn from you. In this case may turn your husband from NATO : No action talk only to , A and W: Action and words together.
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@Iriene88 (5346)
• Malaysia
10 Apr 13
Thanks :). I will take your advise and make the first move. Hopefully he will learn and become A&W .. If not, really no ho hope..lol
@bux123 (96)
• India
7 Apr 13
I am not married but I can take you 1 thing.you can express your love by giving gifts to your wife. by doing small works in house tell ur wife that you are loving her, I think these things will help you to express your love to your wife.
• Australia
8 Apr 13
yep, I have a friend, who is so romatic, he gives his wife a gife every month.Even though they are simply and cheap, but meaningful. He has shown how deep love to his wives, and obviously, they have a sweet family. Life is simple, do not make it too complex.Sometimes it may be a little boring, why not bring some fresh air into your family. A little spark is still need to be tried!!
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
8 Apr 13
Your words very nice, but beware of the many give gifts without acceptable reasons to your wives, it was understood by the wives, by the other wrong concept.
@artemeis (4059)
• China
8 Apr 13
I believe that couples must learn to be nice to each other at ALL times. It sounds really simple but I can assure you that it is quite a feat to do it repeatedly till the end of the world. It is those deeds that are done above and beyond one's limit and the other one's expectations that counts. Chores like doing the dishes may sound simple and mundane but I dare say that to a great majority of MEN, they feel that it is the women's job. So while she toils in the kitchen after preparing a nice meal, he sits in the hall watching television or goes online playing DOTA. I can name quite a few more like folding the laundry, mopping the floor, set the table for a meal or simply asking to help out at home. Being nice also means being appreciative. I find a lot of couples take this for granted where they fail to thank the other for fetching, cooking or helping. I don't see why it is so difficult and double standard here when we can say the words and show appreciation to others and not our love ones at home. Lastly, I am wondering how (is it so difficult) to tell the wife you love her without saying a word when it is so easily blurted out during when the both of you were single and dating one another? Why it is ever so convenient to be picked from work or sent to work when you were living apart and single but ever so busy after married?
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
10 Apr 13
There is a difference between being a home business is the responsibility of the man, or being of man as an assistant to his wife. All men appreciate what their wives are doing the affairs of the house, but there is no objection, of helping men to their wives. In any case, there must be from time to time, the words of love between spouses, not depend only on the acts.
• India
8 Apr 13
surprising her with gifts which she likes, taking her hands and look into her eyes with feeling of love and respect, appreciate her as much as he can, give compliment that she look so good in that dress or when she smiles, buying her flowers, helping her in housework, taking her outside and spend time with her,
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
10 Apr 13
I think that everything that you are saying, is the wish of all Wife, want from her husband.
• Italy
8 Apr 13
You can do what i do. My girlfriend goes to work before me, so late at night i wrote on about 20 small notes "i love you" in the bathroom, cos she would start her day there, and then the kitchen. Some she could see right away, others were hidden, but placed at places i knew she would open, like her make-up purse. Then in the fridge i have a huge note saying "I said, I LOVE YOU". Add some chocolate heart or whatever she likes best.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
9 Apr 13
Are you embarrassed to tell her face to face I love you?. But any way I admire the way that followed, it's an innovative way.
@srisahara (4529)
• Indonesia
8 Apr 13
My husband also rare say "I love you" to me, but he always care to me, respect to me, understand what I want and he never do cheating on our marriage. I think it is enough to show that he loves me, although without saying a word that he loves me. But, there are many wife that want her husband say " I love you" every day. I think it is okay, as long as it makes them happy and enjoy their marriage.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
9 Apr 13
Yes, most wives want to accompany acts words
• China
8 Apr 13
Maybe you can buy something for her when It is necessary. When her shoes and clothes go out of fashion, you take her buy some. Help her do some homework. Do some special thing in your marriage anniversary or her brithday.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
9 Apr 13
All this is great, and fully appreciate the wife and appear pleased if you were among the people, but this is not a substitute for words of love when you're alone together away from people.
• Canada
8 Apr 13
i love that you are still so romantic. i am a natural romantic at heart and always will be. :) i agree and feel like you need to keep the spark going no matter what and have that bit of adventure alive within yourself and your relationship. saying that you love someone is kind of like appologizing for something. a "sorry" means nothing unless you prove soemthing. saying "i love you" is amplified when everyday she sees it in your eyes or in your actions. i always know my man loves me when he rubs my shoulders after work or calls me to see how my day is or cooks me dinner before i come home to do it myself. respect is key. listening is the second part. and cherishing is how you keep her around. if you do just a little thing every day it keeps you from having to pull out so many big gestures. and keeps you out of trouble more often than you might realize or think about. in real life guys, when shes happy, you are happy. ;)
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
9 Apr 13
As you say: " rubs my shoulders after work or calls me to see how my day is or cooks me dinner before i come home to do it myself " respect. listening. Caring. participation. hugging. All of the above acts are indicating silent love, but women and even men need to hear the words of love from time to the other. My best regards.
@eagletrek2 (5476)
• Kingston, New York
8 Apr 13
Hi for me I never beem married. But I know there ways to show It when you love that spceal lady It be cooking .going to Her family stuff.being there When she need the person The most.it part of life there will Be good times and bad times. And more good times.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
9 Apr 13
All this is great, if those acts come from the source of love and not just by responsibility.
@agmamayo (804)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
As most people say :Actions speak louder than words". Showing your wife how you care and love her can be done through helping her with her daily chores, making her feel happiness through your embraces. Treating her with respect, being kind and thoughtful to her and respecting her feelings and attitudes. That is a way of showing how you really love your wife without saying any word. Making her smile for the work you've done or helping her around the house is a way of showing how you love her.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
8 Apr 13
I'm with you in all this words is nice, but What is stopping you in the accompanying acts with words.
@jazel_juan (15758)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
oh my noooooooooo SAY IT! I often tell my husband that HE MUST say it to me hahaha i could see from his actions that he love me, he took care of me at the hospital, he was there when i needed him but he rarely says he loves me and i NEED to hear it hahaha it is something that i always want to hear.. not because i doubt him but for me those are the sweetest words. Even from my kids, i do tell them everyday that i love them...apart from the hugs and kisses.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
8 Apr 13
Yes, Although the actions stronger than words, but the wife wants than her husband saying words of love.
@jazel_juan (15758)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
oh my noooooooooo SAY IT! I often tell my husband that HE MUST say it to me hahaha i could see from his actions that he love me, he took care of me at the hospital, he was there when i needed him but he rarely says he loves me and i NEED to hear it hahaha it is something that i always want to hear.. not because i doubt him but for me those are the sweetest words. Even from my kids, i do tell them everyday that i love them...apart from the hugs and kisses.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
9 Apr 13
but what about your husband, Do you tell him words of love !!
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
8 Apr 13
Love does not always have to be said verbally. But love can also be expressed through action. For example, by giving gifts. Presents itself not always in physical form such as candy, flowers or anything else. There are other types of gifts are often given to a partner but men often do not realize the woman. For example, the time given by him to accompany her lover
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
9 Apr 13
But what is the harm to be love, love Audible (words) in addition to the visual love (acts).
8 Apr 13
before you sleep you place your hand to her forehead and stare at her and kiss her tell her "I Love You" I guess its simple but sweet for women we love to be feel that we are taken care of despite of tiring day that someone will give comfort even not giving anything just a simple gesture will do big impact
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
8 Apr 13
Great, but do not make it a routine thing, and then you go on deep sleep!!! Ha Ha Ha.
• United States
8 Apr 13
Well, it really is the simple things that makes a woman feel loved. It's not about expensive gifts or saying I love you all the time. Sometimes it's just a look that a man gives his woman. I feel loved when my man hears me complain about something (i.e., a leaky faucet) and without me even asking he goes and fixes it. Or when he takes something heavy from me that I'm carrying. And of course if he's extra attentive during our "special times" together then that's icing on the cake! It really is the simple things.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
9 Apr 13
You are you, simple things, but it has a great meaning in love.Yes they are words of love that we see with our eyes, and we can not hear with our ears.