getting many responses and getting nothing,feel happy or guilty? which one?

hiscujbapro I am hap py when I get more than ten and amazed whn lately I have got as many as fifty because I value all my many friends here. Having mylot friends will help anyone to get responses if your friends like your discussions and I also respond to all my friends and that also helps me or anyone else to get more responses. I do try to make interesting discussions always and not to make anything just dull or insipid. I have never not got any response so I guess I am just lucky.One thing is to value your friends and when they respond to your discussions do respond to theirs too.This causes them to respo;nd a lot to you an d helps our friendships too.

I am happy if many responded to my discussion . it inspired me then but if it gets less than 10 responses then it still okay for me , no issues have this in my mind that they don't like the topic and not a concern and their interest , so it was nothing for me. I don't feel bad and i will tell myself that one day i will post a good one that will solicit their responses.

It has never been about the number of responses for me. I am happy to just get a few. If I don't get any so be it. My goal is to get my thoughts out there and if people respond that's great. I enjoy the back and forth with people on subjects from my interests. I know many people don't respond to their discussions after someone responds to them, but I almost always respond. It's great when you get a ton of responses, but I so far think the greatest number of responses I have had in a conversation is like 12 or 13, but that's because my interests are varied, and few people tend to have the same interests as me, and if they do they aren't as passionate about it as I am, which is ok. I'm just happy to talk to a few people about something in which we all have in common.

who will not be happy to see that the discussion started by him recieves many responses. so far i have started two discussions one has received many responses and the other has received none. i was happy to see my discussion received many responses it motivated me that i should start more discussions to engage more people. but when my discussion is not responded by any one i only think that i should create even more interesting topics to engage lots of people. so either way whether my discussions receives more responses or not i am motivated to initiate some very useful discussions in near future

getting a response is getting an information . thats what I get when having a response thats why im happy with that .

I feel really excited when I get different responses for my discussions and in my brief life on mylot none of my discussions have gone without a response so far. And I don't think any discussions of any member will go responseless because there must be someone or the other having an answer for that topic or having his own opinion which he wants to share.Maybe it will come a little late but it will come.At least your friends will post something!!! And the answer to 'nobody answers some discussions, why?' is the very fact that mylot has a large community and peaople are starting new discussions every minute so some of them might get overlooked.

I also like to get lots of responses on the discussions. I think the more responses we get on discussions we will be feeling happy. I think it is good to respond to as much discussions as possible so that people gets more responses.

hello scubapro! i would like it very much if all the discussions i posted got so many responses but unfortunately this does not happen all the time. most discussions i posted this month got very few responses. to be honest it makes me fell very sad cause all the discussions i posted this month contain a lot of knowledge that i wanted so much to share with anyone interested but it seems very few are interested but one consolation for me is that the responses i got all were very positive and very thankful. this is inspiration enough for me to post more and more discussions here.

I dodn't feel bad it just lets me know that on one was interested in my post. I mean there have been a few post that I have gotten only 2=3 response but it did not make me upset or feel guilty..I just imagine why I would feel guilty at all...I mean it is what it is..I just don.t think everyone is interested in every post...

Although its a good thing if you got lots of responses, it would just be okay if you got few. What is important is that we were able to share our ideas through starting a discussion and at the same time, we have done our part by making time to reply those discussions and comment on our post. On the other hand, having a many responses means more chances of earning on our part. Well, I must admit that I am also happy if I got more responses. But getting few responses does not mean that your discussion is not a good discussion. Have a wonderful day!

I think get many responses and get nothing is the same here when we see from our earning, although we get many responses but if we do not give feedback we do not get earning, it is the same with we get nothing. Yes, we get paying if we type and write our idea. Have a nice day.

I am happy if I could have a discussion here from time to time. Even with a few respond will make me happy as well . But of course if there is more, it will give more encouragement . Sometimes, when I see some post has no respond yet and if I am familiar with the post I will respond to it .

I'm new here at mylot and I was excited to start sharing what I believe is helpful to the discussion. I'm sure I'll be much happier is someone replies to my post because it shows I caught someone's curiosity or tweak their philosophy or principles in life. If I would be able to post, I would feel disappointed if nobody cares to reply but on the other hand, I would prefer no responses at all than get a lot of negative responses. :)

It's not about how many responses you get in every discussions that you make. It's how you express what you want to say. If you are happy with you are doing then just keep on making discussions. One day you'll get a good feedback from Mylot users also. Just keep on trying. Good luck

I feel happy if my discussion getting response. Sometimes we just have to remember, that mylotters coming from all over the place, with different interests and opinions, and don't forget different time zone. It could be when you write you discussion, half of mylot population are sleeping.

of course getting more responses is the best, though we cannot avoid receiving few comments some time. It is because mylotters came from different places and having different time zones is one of the reason why some interesting topic gets few responses and other received a lot. Anyway, don't feel bad for few responses- just enjoy your participating with other discussion and have fun

I have no reason why some of my topics attract many users and some don't I like when I get quality responses as that gives me an opportunity to interact. This site is about interacting with as many as you can and this is possible only if we get many responses.

I think we all like to get responses but haven't really thought about it all that much. I just comment and keep going through my emails.

There are so many members in and out each day here. I think that if your posts are interesting youll get many responces. Maybe not the same day you posted. Good luck Have fun here... I sure do..

If I post a discussion and if it one gets, on response I am happy for the one response, I am not disappointed or anything like that,I just enjoy coming here and responding to discussions, here in Mylot.