sibling fights
By cylle_06
@cylle_06 (233)
Philippines
April 12, 2013 7:46am CST
A family will always be a family. because blood is thicker than water. haha..
one time, i heard my aunt say that if you have a sibling next to you which is your opposite gender, that's the one whom you'll always have an argument with or sometimes, physical fights. hahaha...it's funny coz it's true for me. i have a brother, and i am younger than him, i don't even know what the reason is but we always fight. like ALWAYS!.. i can't really understand why my blood is boiling whenever he's around and i know he feels the same way. but whatever we do, we still don't hate each other that much. and i heard from his friends that he's telling them good things about me. well, he's my brother. nothing can change that. :D
6 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
Me, being the eldest, can be a bit bosy at times. That is why my brother and I would often fight when we were kids. I would always try to act as if I was the mother. But my real intentions are only to make sure that he would not be hurt. But it goes beyond that coz he would not listen to me. So I always ended up being scolded.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
Thank you fro seeing it that way. We are much older now and since my brother now lives in another country, it is impossible not to miss him. Atleast we grew up having a good relationship despite us constantly fighting when we were younger.
@cylle_06 (233)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
ohhh..it's hard when you're the eldest coz it's like you're the second mom. you have to look after your younger siblings and sometimes you may even have to discipline them. And that develops a great sense of responsibility while you're growing up. I'm sure your siblings love you and respect you a lot.
@lifan2013 (16)
•
13 Apr 13
It's a common phenomenon to fight between sibings.I also have a old brother who is older 3 years than me.When we are very small,we often fight each other,because he is a boy and older than me,I can't win him,at that time,i really hate him,i once thought if i have a nife,i will kill him,of course,that's just a kiding,now,we both grow up,our relationship is very well,we often talk the past thing.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
12 Apr 13
i remember my own fights against my siblings. i am somehow in the middle, so i had fights with my older and younger sisters. they were agressive and all-out fights. as a boy, i did not cry much. but my younger sister who liked to pick a fight with me always came for my mother and sought her support and sympathy. i hated her then. but now, everything is fine. family is always a family.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
12 Apr 13
I also always fight with my junior brother 2 years younger than me, but deep down in my heart we always love each other so much.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
13 Apr 13
Me neither and maybe that is because we are so close and we don't mind to really hurt someone, but I still believe that respect is the most important thing between us. Isn't it? Well I fight with my cousins once and we still now get along really well. So good luck to you and I suppose this is common thing to see. Lol
@RandomnessPrincessx3 (280)
• United States
12 Apr 13
That may be true. I have an older sister I dont get along with but we both get along with the youngest sister.
