Some People Cause A Problem, And Want Everybody Else, Involved In It

As parent, we should maintain good relationship with children especially to their friends. Perhaps your son needs your help and moral support and you can positively encourage him to face the reality, do respect and ask your niece to accompany him. He might have his reasons by so doing.

If they are grown up adult, they should be responsible for their life . Others could help them if they are able but not all the time. If otherwise, he will never learn and will always be very dependent

I see it all the time, especially where I work. There will always be people who like drama and not happy unless everyone else around them can be involved with it too.

My in laws have a favorite grandson. ANd even if this grandson would be the worst kid among their grandchildren, they treat him very special. The funny and irritating thing is , when this kid does something bad, my in laws would not just stop at scolding this boy, but they would call me up and tell me that it was probably the influence of my son that their favorite grandchild have made something wrong. ABSURD! How can their favorite grandson be envious of my son when my son barely has money to out with friends, while my mother in law would always give money to the other boy all the time?!

I wouldn't want to get involved either. I have seen how my sons are and I feel a lot of their problems they have brought on. It isn't always them that starts it and I can sure tell the difference. Big boys need to learn to solve their own problems.

I'm sorry he's a problem causer and you don't want to be involved in his drama. You're his parent though. He probably put trust in you to help him.