What does it mean when a guy asks you if you have a boyfriend?

Philippines
April 14, 2013 2:06am CST
Okay, so there's this guy that I kind of like. And recently, he asked me if I had a boyfriend. Is there any real meaning to it? Or is it just normal conversation topic?
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@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
18 Apr 13
I think if a guy asks that question he may be interested in you romantically or he just wants to know if you have one so he will be aware to keep his distance if you actually have a boyfriend. I base this answer on my own reasons for asking guys whether they have girlfriends. Another thing: if a person lies about being single, then that's a red flag. It is best to ask a guy this.
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@ShyBear88 (59275)
• Sterling, Virginia
4 Feb 19
A lot of times guys ask because they want to know if your taken or not but also some guys ask because they like the challenge of taking someone who is seeing someone. A lot of people make of female get a thrill of cheating and not getting caught
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
14 Apr 13
It usually means that he's interested in you. If you answer 'no', his next move will probably be to ask you out.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
Took it in the simple manner. Maybe he is just curious to know if you have a boyfriend. Now, wait for his next move then you will come to know if there is another reason behind the first question.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
14 Apr 13
As for me, I really think he is interested in you. Most of the guys asks those things to somehow assess whether they can court a girl or simple to determine of one is single or not. But most of the times, they ask that the girl they are really interested.
• Philippines
14 Apr 13
Thank you very much for this! :) I really hope that it'll work out.
@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
14 Apr 13
may be he too likes you. That's why he want to clear all things before proceeding further.
• Philippines
14 Apr 13
Thank you. I hope so too! ;)
• India
15 Apr 13
That totally means, he likes you girl and would like to take you out.... The same incident happened with me and my guy, we were in school together... he use to ask me out on coffee's, I used to think that he just wants hang out... he had asked if I was dating someone couple of times, all those times I was infact in a relationship.. So now that we are seeing each other I know that all those times that he has asked me whether I was single was cause he liked me!!! So yes I think he likes you...
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
14 Apr 13
It depends my friend. You should observe the way he asked that question to you. Because there you will find the answer a whether he has a thing for you or it was just a normal question.
@riempie9 (1021)
• South Africa
14 Apr 13
It's very simple ihopper. When a man asks a woman whether she has a boyfriend he is trying to find out whether she has someone in her life; plain and simple. This is not every day normal chat. You are serious about wanting to know more about the girl and whether you might have a chance with her. You would not ask about her if you are not interested. So the meaning is yes, she would be interested in finding out more about you.
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
14 Apr 13
It is only one of the manifestations of a certain guy liking a girl. this is usually the first step because he wants to find out if youre free and available before he decides on moving to another level. But do not assume right away that he is on his way of courting you. Just wait for other signals.
@dagami (1158)
• Rome, Italy
14 Apr 13
he wants to know if the coast is clear before he proceeds further. he is interested but he wants to make sure he has a chance.