Friends are hard to make.

@jricky1 (6800)
China
April 18, 2013 1:25am CST
Sometimes you feel like making friend and try be friendly,but people don't seem like to do the same,how do you think of it and are you agree with it?I try to be nice when i meet people and hopefully this works.Good for you guys.
3 people like this
12 responses
@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
18 Apr 13
i never tries to make new friends. I am okay being alone or with very few friends.
1 person likes this
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
18 Apr 13
I think it is always great to get best friends in life.
@daisy777 (214)
• South Africa
18 Apr 13
I don't intentionally try and find a friend. A friendship develops over time and once you've found that friend, it's important to nurture it.
1 person likes this
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
18 Apr 13
Time can overcome everything or stop something.So i believe this is right.Sometimes close someone with intention isn't naturally developed,so i hope we have right attitude towards it and all the best wishes to us.Cheers.
1 person likes this
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Apr 13
I don't have any problem making friends and I can say that I am lucky to have great friends who are always there when I needed them the most. I easily make friends, but of course only selected few becomes the closest to us.
1 person likes this
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
18 Apr 13
We all get different kind of friend in our life,so i'm sure we would meet someone good.But close ones are not easy,thank you for share and have a wonderful day,dear mylotters.Nice meeting you guys here.
1 person likes this
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
18 Apr 13
Good friend is hard to find - People are more cautious nowsday when finding fren
YEs , finding friend is hard nowsday because the worild is like last time, many people are supicious of each other intention , because even criminals are lurking around to find its victim. It is no more safe to befriend anybody anywhere. Beside that , bird of the same weather flock together. People choose their friends. Hence meeting people in activity of interests is good. In Gym people share common interests are easily to made friend.
1 person likes this
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
18 Apr 13
When i try to tell from the bottom of my heart but i just don't know how they feel about,so life can be tough somehow.We need to get along together and see whether we have anything in common,i think it's important as friends,thank you for share.
1 person likes this
@SIMPLYD (90727)
• Philippines
18 Apr 13
You may be friendly but others are not. Besides, people have different preferences, so we cannot expect them to reciprocate in a positive way whenever we are friendly with them.
1 person likes this
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
18 Apr 13
I know and now that i learn i should realize this and be friendly is cool and we really need to take good care of ourself sometime,being positive and keep smiling,there would be someone who treat us as real friend.
1 person likes this
@wulania (1524)
• Indonesia
18 Apr 13
not hard but misterius. How to Make Friends. There's a certain beauty in being a lone wolf. You have more time to do the things you want to do, like take introspective walks, read books ...
1 person likes this
@KrauseHome (36449)
• United States
19 Apr 13
Yes, making new friends can be hard. There are times especially when somewhere new that you do not know anyone you might be afraid due to you are not sure how people will take you. Even when starting a new job, a new social networking site, business, etc. This is always a part of life, and people need to just take one step forward introduce themselves, and hope for the best from there. Even when we first came here, it was the same thing until we got to know someone.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
18 Apr 13
I also think that friends are hard to get and hard to make. Now a days true friends are hard to get. I think it is always good to get best friends who care for us in life. I think now a days most of people looks for their own needs and make friendships for their needs.
@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
28 Apr 13
In childhood, friends are easy to make. You can observe the small children. In childhood, friendship happens naturally, as easily as breathing. But when we grow older, we lose our innocence. We become cunning and calculative. Then we lose trust in others also. A heart which cannot trust finds it difficult to make friends. Moreover, we try to use people for our own selfish ends. We want others to help us, but we never make any attempt to help others. Thus, it becomes difficult to make friends.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Apr 13
Just be yourself. There is no use trying to please everybody. If anybody likes you as you are, that could be the best friend that you could have. Have a nice day!
1 person likes this
• India
18 Apr 13
I always think if others also thing like the way I think and the way I feel. but it is not right. people are different and have different moods and atitudes with different thoughts and feelings. having a good friend is not that easy. but if we try to find good things on others then we can have many good friends.
1 person likes this
@cherigucchi (14885)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
I think it is easy to find friends or may i say an acquaintance. But finding the real one is something i consider difficult. It is not easy to find someone whom you can share things you like to share or just somebody who will listen and give time when you need them.