Is it right that as an pure listener?
By daisylove18
@daisylove18 (56)
China
April 22, 2013 8:51am CST
These days,a classmate of my dormitory let me very depressed.Why?Things just seem to happen like this:
My roommate named Tong always wearing headphones,so you always don't know if she have heard your words.Or she just as an pure listener in dormitory.
Basically,I have classes every day,But the rest of my roommate was not.So I called Tong to remind me to get up in advance.LATER,if not another roommate told me to get up,today's lesson is not to spend,because I sleep a deep and Tong forgot to wake me up.
Later,I blame her,she said:I heard,just forgot it.
And one more thing is I want to know the time when I sleep.But my mobile phone,watches are on the desk.So I asked Tong:"what time is it,Tong?"she didn't answer.I asked again,"Please!!"no answer.I was very angry and got up to see the time by myself.
Then I asked her"Didn't you hear what I just said?"she said"NO"
I must be crazy!!BUT the same thing happened many times.I am very very depressed!!!
3 responses
@peterhu (8)
• China
22 Apr 13
we understand you are depressed , because of neglection from your roommate. it is important for us to respect others by listening them carefully .obviously ,you roommate does not well in this aspect. however , sometime we should respect others though they do not well as you do . you said she wears headphone all day , maybe listening music or something else is her favorate thing , interfering others hobby just because they disturb your life would make them be disappointed with your behaviour . if you are not tolerant to your friend , later you would not be depressed but lonely .
@daisylove18 (56)
• China
22 Apr 13
Hello
Thank you for your answer.May be I was wrong.To some extent,all this only my individual idea!!I will do my best to get along well with my roommates.
Hope you have a good time!!:)
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
22 Apr 13
Hello daisylove. I agree with the first responder that you are responsible for your own affairs. I hold the belief that we ourselves are the ones to rely on rather than the others whom we rely on, especially when your roommate is one who is crazy about music. To get this problem settled, you may place your alarm clock next to your own desk or under your pillow. This is what I often do to wake me up in the right time so that I won't be late for work.
Anyway, there is no need to be depressed for this. Everyone is responsible for his own behaviour. Thanks for the discussion. Take care.
@daisylove18 (56)
• China
22 Apr 13
Hello friend
Uh,if I place my mobile phone or watches next to my pillow,I will trouble sleeping even when I clearly need it.so i won't do it.
But you are right,everyone is responsible for his own behaviour.I will not rely on others as possible as I can.
@robysinghsheenh (51)
• India
25 Apr 13
dont't worry if anyone don't listen to you what you will bet by talking ignore and enjoy make yourself and god your friends then you will never be alone there would always be the group of three no more needed ignore everyone let them avoid and don't worry.
