boy kills ex girlfriends boyfriend cause his girlfriend talks with her ex :(

relationships - boy and girl together
Portugal
April 25, 2013 5:15am CST
hi guys. i saw in news that a guy saw his girlfriend talking with her ex in the street and he took out a knife and killed the guy! how is this possible? i cant understand someone who kills and they say they killed cause of jealous. i mean they were just talking and even if she was cheating on him he shouldnt kill the guy. the best would be break up with her right? from what i read she and her ex remained friends and they worked in the same place. so is normal that they talked. what a crazy thing that guy did by killing a very young guy he was only 29. and died for no reason :( what do you guys think about these obsessive relations?
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12 responses
@srisahara (4529)
• Indonesia
26 Apr 13
I think the man is crazy person. It is difficult to learn why he should kill the girl. I think there is solution of their problem. Yes, i think it is not the best solution. But, sometimes we never know what their motivation to do it. It is so sad.
@adhyz82 (36256)
• Indonesia
27 Apr 13
do you hear case one military person kill his girlfriend and the mother of his girl, when the girl said she is pregnant? i think many people becomes so mad when they are afraid something bad happen to them..
• Portugal
4 May 13
srisahara i understand what you mean about we dont know what made him do that. but i mean even if we are jealous or if we find out that our boyfriend is cheating on us it isnt a reason for us to kill. if we get cheated even if it hurts us we can yell at the person. we could even argue with the person but kill? sure not. these situations i cant understand it.
• Portugal
4 May 13
@adhyz82 i cant understand that situation. the guy is crazy! i mean if his girlfriend was pregnant why did he kill her? if he didnt want to take responsability of the kid he better say it than kill his girlfriend. he ended up killing three people cause he also killed the baby. i mean how come he could act that way? if he didnt want the baby he could say that to his girlfriend and she could raise him without him.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
25 Apr 13
As the song says "Too much love will kill you". I believe that too much jealousy is a sign of obsession to partners and it is not really healthy. We cannot predict what a person can do if he or she is obsessed and the worst of it is to kill.
@adhyz82 (36256)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 13
i ever feel in my real life, when jealous dominate my heart it block me and only think about one girl.. i think when we can control it, jealous is normal
• Portugal
4 May 13
yes kokomo. sadly nowadays we see many situations where people kill because of jealousy. its like we dont even know who we are dating. i mean poor girl. her ex was killed by her crazy actual boyfriend. i cant imagine how she is feeling like. there are too many obsessive people that dont know boundaries to what we can do for love.
• Portugal
4 May 13
@adhyz82 jealous is a normal thing i agree with you. but kill someone because is talking to the one we love? i mean i would be sad if i knew that my boyfriend was friends with his ex but i wouldnt kill the girl. or treat her badly i mean. if that guy really loved his girlfriend he wouldnt act this way. this is a bad attitude and a crazy thing to be done.
@Aja103654 (5654)
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
That's murder. No amount of excuse justifies what he has done. The girl chose such an awful guy. Killing was not necessary. Such unstable relationships should be broken as soon as possible, and a mental institution or the police station is a good place for that person who has killed for such a pathetic reason.
• Portugal
4 May 13
aja sadly many people act this way. i cant understand how come in this world exist people that kill for no reason. if he found out she was cheating on him with that guy he could like go and punch the guy and break up with the girl. but kill the guy? i cant understand it. the best if we are not happy in a relationship is to end it.
• United States
26 Apr 13
That is a very sad and unfortunate story. One thing about love or what you perceive as love is that it is perhaps the most intense emotion that someone can have, and sometimes a person morphs that love into another intense emotion, anger. I think that the girlfriend more than likely saw signs that her current boyfriend was/is unstable and should have broken up with him before this could have even possibly happened.
• Portugal
4 May 13
i agree with you. would be good that she understood how her boyfriend really was. but i see so many people being killed by boyfriends or girlfriends cause of stupid reasons that i start to think that we never know someone completely. we never know what someone is really capable to do. i just hope i find a good boyfriend. i cant imagine how the girl is feeling right now knowing that her ex got killed by her crazy boyfriend. i feel sorry for her.
@Iriene88 (5346)
• Malaysia
26 Apr 13
It seems this world are full with people that we do not really know who they really are. They can be impulsive killers. This is really scary! Lately there are many cases of people carrying knife and just killed innocent people and they do feel any guilt at all. Shooting spree, throwing home made bombs etc. The world is no longer safe any more.
• Portugal
4 May 13
i agree with you iriene. sadly nowadays we dont know how people really are. is crazy that some people kill for stupid reasons. there are so many killers in this world that is like we cant be safe anymore when we go out cause we dont know what can happen. i just wish to be safe everyday and that bad people can be punished for what they do bad.
@LittleMel (14037)
• Canada
25 Apr 13
they might have remained more than friends the bf knew more than us who are only reading the story but even if she cheated, taking the other guy's life is not the answer she may even cheat again, what will he do? kill again?
• Portugal
4 May 13
well littlemel maybe you are right and she was cheating in the guy. but for what i understood the guy who killed was really cruel. cause he just came to the guy he pointed the knife and then put it down in a harsh way so the wound would be deadly. i mean how can someone do this? if we have a boyfriend and he cheats on us we can be really out of control but kill someone? hell no.
@adhyz82 (36256)
• Indonesia
25 Apr 13
i think it can be caused when one or two side didn`t tell the truth.. sometimes openess or closeness become one side have a uncontrollable jealous.. jealous is normal but when we can`t control it, jealous become evil
• Portugal
4 May 13
yes adhiz in this case jealous really turnt out evil. i mean that guy who got killed was so young. he was only 29 years old. i cant imagine how his parents felt like. people in the street tried to help him. but he was already dying. i understand that people have jealous. cause if we love someone we feel jealous cause we are afraid of losing him. but kill other person? i cant understand it.
• India
25 Apr 13
well he was not a normal person,,, he was just ill in his mind... I hope that I would never hear things like that..
• Portugal
4 May 13
for sure he is ill in his mind. cause for him was so easy to just go and kill someone. i mean how can we kill someone because of jealous? even if his girlfriend was cheating on him the best was to break up with her. and maybe she wasnt even cheating on him and he just didnt want her near her ex and killed him because of that. we dont know his reasons but no matter what his reasons are the answer wasnt to kill someone.
@rog0322 (2832)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Apr 13
Hi, It is not right to kill, much more to kill for the wrong reason. Jealousy is the worst thing on a relationship and definitely not a sign of true love, it is obsessive possessiveness and not a healthy indication of a normal emotional make up of a person. True love understands and sees beyond what is perceived by the physical senses. Failing to do this, a lover becomes a parody of that state of being in love and is oftentimes carried very far from the ideal situation he desires.
• Portugal
4 May 13
rog what this guy did no one can understand unless he is a psycho like him. i mean even if the girl was cheating on him he didnt have a reason to kill someone. besides for what i read in the news the girl was just talking with her ex in the street. people assisted to this guy killing her ex boyfriend. i mean who kills for just seeing his girlfriend talking with her ex? even if he knew something that didnt say in the news if for example she was cheating on him i understand he became angry but kill someone i dont understand.
@paulli3 (312)
• China
25 Apr 13
it's crazy, I never understand why some people kill others. You mean, maybe we will meet troubles in our all kinds of relationship. But we could use a peace way to solve it. Some people are cracy when they were born. ex gf or ex bf really makes people feel embarassed or angry. At least I feel uncomfortable when I hear something about my gf's es bf. I think lovers do not remind anything about ex is great.
• Portugal
4 May 13
no one likes to know that our boyfriend is friends with his ex. is normal that we feel insecure and even think that they can be together again. but thats not a reason to kill. if we are not happy that our boyfriend be friends with his ex we should tell him. and if he still wants to continue to talk to her we have to respect and trust him. this guy just act crazy by killing someone cause of jealous.
@toniganzon (55745)
• Philippines
25 Apr 13
It's insane. Those people are just insanely insecure. They think their lives revolve around their relationship. They don't feel loved at all. Thus, this insecurity causes them to be crazy. Pitiful.
• Portugal
4 May 13
yes toni. its so sad cause i mean how are the guy's parents? the boy who got killed was only 29 years. this guy destroyed not just the boy's life but also the life of this boy's family. everyone is jealous in relations but isnt because of that we will start to kill everyone around our boyfriend. this guy is insane and for sure he doesnt know what love really means.
• Philippines
25 Apr 13
hi sweet, Nice to see you here again Well we really don't know the real story sometimes media doesn't give the full and exact details but whatever it is what he did is totally wrong no one has the right to take someone's life. Well love can kill and can kill you. happy mylotting
• Portugal
4 May 13
nice to see you too ^^ how have you been? ;) yes i also dont understand why he killed. i mean even if the girl was cheating on him i could understand if he went to the guy and punch him cause i mean we get out of control if we get cheated on. but to kill him? i cant understand it. we all have jealous and sometimes act bad but doesnt mean we have to kill someone. the best for him was to break up with his girlfriend and move on, that if she was cheating on him cause i dont know.