How to deal with children in terms of language teaching?

@joizee (502)
Philippines
April 26, 2013 7:27pm CST
In my online English tutorials, the age range is from 3 to 80 years old. Usually I teach professionals and university students but mu ultimate challenge is kids. (facepalm) Yes I'm a mother, yes I have little nieces and nephew, yes I know how to treat kids BUT teaching another language using Skype?! I. Just. Want. To. Die. Sometimes they're too hyper I am just laughing all the time and not be able to teach anymore and then realized their parents are beside them, so - . Sometimes they don't speak and I am trying the best I can but all I can get is "yes", "no", "I don't know", so - double . And sometimes they think they're all good enough that they turn snobbish on me! Welcome failure with children with language teaching. (facepalm) I actually tried showing stuff toys to catch their attention and send musical/educational videos and games to have us a lesson. But it's not teaching language anymore. And sometimes, there are too much parental participation that the child depends on the translations instead of trying to use English on his/her own. It's defeating the purpose of having lessons with me and for the child to learn English. Do you have any tips? Thanks!
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@cyjh21 (160)
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
Hahaha! yEs, I agree with you and teach.ing kids online is very much challenging. Well, I've been teaching Koreans online for two years and most of them are elementary and middle school students (though sometimes, I also have students who are 6-9 years old). Yes, it's very hard to teach them online because they are so hypher most of the time.. so all I do is to enjoy and be perky in the class (as my manager advised us to do so.. that its okay as long as the students enjoy the class) Well,yeah, I'm also with you when you said that its not teaching English anymore.. but I guess, that's the way they learn (though it really made me question it at first..) How could merely repeating words or sentences help someone to learn? huh? But really, that's the pattern of education in their country.. In fact, one of my students last time told me like this.. "Teacher, here, when we first learn English, we always answer the question "How are you?" with "I'm fine, thank you. How about you?" or "I'm fine, thank you. And you?" ALWAYS like that, teacher." not surprising, anyway.. because my students usually answer me like that.. What I mean here is that's their way, their pattern of education and we can't change that.. (given the fact that we only handle them few minutes in a day, or few days in a week). They still learn anyway (though in a slower pace than others) through just listening, repeating your words and expressing themselves freely (if they can do so) To conclude this, hoho! Ihave a student who has been my student for a year and a month (take note, it's an everyday 20minute class, freetalking class) She usually answered me I don't know before or "Other student, ask" if i was trying to get her idea about something.. (she's 12years old then) but now, she freely expresses herself though misconstructed sentences.. but I can say that she shows a lot of improvements.. we didn't have any grammar or English lesson, we just talked! hihih! So just enjoy it and have fun! Teach them little by little.. ask them questions, let them answer.. if they give one word answer or just fragments, let them repeat in a sentence, (of course, using the magibj 'tara haseyo' which means 'repeat after me' incase you don't know..:)) It's also better if you know some basic korean phrases to get their attention like 'hajeema' which means 'don't do that. They will also feel comfortable if they know you can speak even a little. Also their parents will leave you teaching their child alone.. :) I don't know if I was able to answer your question but I hope this comment helps.:)
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@joizee (502)
• Philippines
28 Apr 13
I think you hit the submit button twice? Hihi! Just a guess
@cyjh21 (160)
• Philippines
28 Apr 13
Haha,,, I was just using my phone and there was an error.. So I thought the reply wasn't submitted.. And i was surprised..!! Hihi! I don't know how to delete a comment.. I guess it's not possible.. Hoho!
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@cyjh21 (160)
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
Hahaha! yEs, I agree with you and teach.ing kids online is very much challenging. Well, I've been teaching Koreans online for two years and most of them are elementary and middle school students (though sometimes, I also have students who are 6-9 years old). Yes, it's very hard to teach them online because they are so hypher most of the time.. so all I do is to enjoy and be perky in the class (as my manager advised us to do so.. that its okay as long as the students enjoy the class) Well,yeah, I'm also with you when you said that its not teaching English anymore.. but I guess, that's the way they learn (though it really made me question it at first..) How could merely repeating words or sentences help someone to learn? huh? But really, that's the pattern of education in their country.. In fact, one of my students last time told me like this.. "Teacher, here, when we first learn English, we always answer the question "How are you?" with "I'm fine, thank you. How about you?" or "I'm fine, thank you. And you?" ALWAYS like that, teacher." not surprising, anyway.. because my students usually answer me like that.. What I mean here is that's their way, their pattern of education and we can't change that.. (given the fact that we only handle them few minutes in a day, or few days in a week). They still learn anyway (though in a slower pace than others) through just listening, repeating your words and expressing themselves freely (if they can do so) To conclude this, hoho! Ihave a student who has been my student for a year and a month (take note, it's an everyday 20minute class, freetalking class) She usually answered me I don't know before or "Other student, ask" if i was trying to get her idea about something.. (she's 12years old then) but now, she freely expresses herself though misconstructed sentences.. but I can say that she shows a lot of improvements.. we didn't have any grammar or English lesson, we just talked! hihih! So just enjoy it and have fun! Teach them little by little.. ask them questions, let them answer.. if they give one word answer or just fragments, let them repeat in a sentence, (of course, using the magibj 'tara haseyo' which means 'repeat after me' incase you don't know..:)) It's also better if you know some basic korean phrases to get their attention like 'hajeema' which means 'don't do that. They will also feel comfortable if they know you can speak even a little. Also their parents will leave you teaching their child alone.. :) I don't know if I was able to answer your question but I hope this comment helps.:)
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@joizee (502)
• Philippines
28 Apr 13
Hi Cyjh21! You also had the "I don't know" syndrome? Hahaha! That makes me all angered up! It's frustrating, depressing, confusing all at the same time! Hahaha! And I'm using a video lesson for kids so I have to smile all the time! Waaaah! I have a principle to not use phrases of their language so they won't be dependent to translations anymore, but since they're children, I have to reconsider. Strict much? Haha! Well, I have to really change my attitude and methods in teaching children with language learning. I think I even have to use outside sources that ones given to me. Hay teaching, why do you have to be this challenging! Haha! But I still enjoy and find the Barney Stinson in me and say "CHALLENGE ACCEPTED". Thanks Cy! See you next discussion ;)
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
Wow! It would really be challenging to be teaching kids. I think teaching kids shouldn't be done online. I think they don't have the discipline to do it. It's difficult for us (adults) to discipline ourselves from not wandering about when online, how much more for kids? I think language foundation should be done physically. Then when there are already 'basics' that's the time that online studying should be done. But since you're in that line and you can't do anything about it. Perhaps you could do varieties like through a song. Like the ones they do on television. My nephew and niece actually learned english through songs of television. I guess you need to be highly creative for that. Have a great mylot experience ahead!
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@joizee (502)
• Philippines
28 Apr 13
Good morning Laydee :) Now you said language learning of kids isn't very effective online, I might try to suggest to improve our clientele to the company. Your point's acceptable since children have low attention span, wants fun almost all the time and would lead to more misunderstandings if the child isn't behaving well. But there are times their parents are beside them, having the lesson together. Helping out mostly in translating questions and directions. But then the child also asks them what to say or translate what they say. I don't know whether if I should answer my own question like giving as an example. But I worry the parents might feel I'm too strict. Well, I would consider the sing-a-long lessons with flashcards, perhaps? Thanks thanks! Thinking cap needed for this one. Have a good day! :)
27 Apr 13
I don't know, I'm very skeptical when it comes to teaching little kids.Teaching music,cooking is much easier, but teaching language...Personally, I'm not successful in this field.I believe teaching online requires motivation.These kids can't concentrate,it's more like a game for them.I don't know,I would stick with adult teaching if I was in your place.
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@joizee (502)
• Philippines
28 Apr 13
HI Ladysilver, thanks for sharing your ideas. I really am loosing all creativity to catch their attention and I'm not even starting the lesson yet. I've tried the conversation starters and asked all about their favorites and when I ask "why", all of them reply "I don't know". And that is soooo frustrating! I ended up giving them something to watch or read online and I write in myLot. LOL! But I'm too much committed to this job that I don't like sharing time with tutorials and other jobs. It lessens my concentration. But thanks for your p.o.v. ;)
• Hangzhou, China
20 Jun 14
yes, it is very difficult to teach kids,as they are noisy and less of attention. if there's the choice for me to teach kids or teenagers, I would like to teach teenagers. Teach kids is casting pearls before swine.