Making Others Sad, can make you Happy !

@Deepak2J (1178)
India
April 28, 2013 9:14am CST
I always help people in need and whenever possible and fix things,etc. There is many people available who just makes others sad and cry, broke things, etc. But, those people are now happy and got whatever they wanted. And me, I never got even a smallest thing which I ever wanted. So, my conclusion is that, If you make others happy, than your happiness goes to them and in return you get their sadness which makes you sad and unhappy and sorrow. And if you make others sad, than you give your sorrow and unhappy to them and got their happiness and joy which makes you successful and happy. those people are now living a rich life, even if due to them many people cried or becomes sad or sorrow. Is this the rule of life and to be successful ?
9 responses
@grvdubey11 (1879)
• India
28 Apr 13
Many factors are there for someone to be successful like destiny and efforts.Actually the people who make others sad obviously does not care about feeling of others and hence they have no shame in manipulating them.That way its much easier to get success. While in case of good people, they think about others too,they try not to hurt anyone and in the process they are not able to give their 100 percent.This is the reason why its a common belief that good people have to suffer while bad ones are successful. Its not that you cannot achieve success if you are good and helping,there are good people who make strong reputation of trust and bonding in their social circles and when they need help ,surely they get it.This is much harder way to get success than manipulating people but it works.Best wishes.
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@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
29 Apr 13
some people just try to fool other people and get profit from that because of easy way of getting success. But this may not be a long success like the people with an effort and also helping others. thank you for the response
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
28 Apr 13
i know just what you mean. i often wonder why good people that care get all the greif and people that dont care get the good stuff in life its just like america. we care yet we get all the crap from other countries. and they get held up higher.
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@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
29 Apr 13
yeah that may be for a cause, but it feels very frustrating, because useless ones gets everything and the useful ones gets very less or nothing and gets sad. Anyway, Hope in future everything will be good and just nice. have a super day and thanks for the response
@Raine38 (12257)
• United States
28 Apr 13
I also believe and feel the same whenever I get to help someone. I like to be of help, especially if the person I helped is worthy and such a nice person. I do not expect anything in return of course, except for their friendship.
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@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
29 Apr 13
I too always helps good people. But if any bad people asks my help about solving any problem, than if possible I helps him. I too never expects but... Thanks and have a nice day
@Angelpink (4035)
• Philippines
28 Apr 13
Hi ! if i can make others sad then i would be the saddest. I could never rejoice if others are grieving ! I want to be the source of happiness and not sadness or sorrow. I could not sleep and be in peace if i made others cry. It is so beautiful and at peace in going to bed if before the day end , we have done little things that make others smile . This is really enough !
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@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
29 Apr 13
Hi angel if for any reason, someone gets even a little problem,i always feels frustrated till I solve the problem for them. I think good people always has this feeling about others Thank you for the response
• Howrah, India
28 Apr 13
I know many people with this kind of weird behaviour.Actually this world is full of this kind of people.I think they don't know the actual meaning of life,Life is all about be happy and make others happy.Have a nice day ahead..
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@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
29 Apr 13
They just want to take get more and more, without caring about anything. Thank you and have a good day
@Life11211 (452)
• India
28 Apr 13
The evil you do remains with you, the good you do, come back to you. Every single act is accounted for. What ever you see is trailer of the movie and not the full movie. In short term, things looks different, but reality is completely different.
@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
29 Apr 13
Maybe you are right. Those people may face problem later and there would be no one to help them. Thanks for the response
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
28 Apr 13
I am much like you I want to help others in any way that I can it always makes me sad to see and or hear about the people that put others down and make them sad or even cry I wounder how they would feel if it was done to them all the time
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@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
29 Apr 13
I love helping, but sometimes feels sad seeing bad people getting the most of life. Just hope everything will be fine with time. Thank you for the response.
• Philippines
28 Apr 13
Yes. Sometimes that is the rule but life is say you always have a choose if you want to happy or not.but much more Like you say.
@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
29 Apr 13
We should be live happily with others not alone Thank you and have a good day
• Bulgaria
28 Apr 13
It sounds egoistic, but in my opinion we have to do everything for our own good and let the others fixed their problems on their own. We are born to be happy - it's our right and destiny. We are not a sunshine to be everywhere.
@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
29 Apr 13
No, we should always help others. 'cause helping is humanity. thank you for responding