how to forgive?

September 1, 2013 2:13am CST
some people said that you can't fly high if something is weighing you down...this is exactly what is happening to me right now. I had so much pain in my heart and so much hatred and this pulling me down. It affects my relationship with my husband and my children. Sometime i blow up my anger to them eventhough they don't deserve the blows up. i don't know how to forgive all the people that hurts me and turn me into a hard person as i am now. can anybody please tell me how forgive and forget.
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bingziii
@bingziii (86)
• China
2 Sep 13
we all have to experience this..so please take it easy!! i think somethings happenned that you cant accepted made you so worried.. if you try to tell that to your friends or your relations or anyone else, or here, and try your best to bear that you can't accepted. then you will feel better!! if any questions, please feel free to email to me. bingziii@hotmail.com Best wishes,
bethson
@bethson (10)
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6 Sep 13
yes you were very right something happened to me that until now it's hard for me to accept. most people around me are so cruel and abusive. the whole thing that happen to me turn me into person i am now.
bingziii
@bingziii (86)
• China
6 Sep 13
@bethson then what we have to do is try to adapted it or try our best to change it? can I help you? and if you are glad to tell me more, i'll be a good audience.
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Bluedoll
@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
8 Sep 13
I see people being so nice and then treated unfairly. Maybe the ones that treat other badly will pay for their cruelness and the people that are nice will be better for it? I get angry sometimes and think revenge but this I soon find out hurts mostly only me so I try to stop thinking that way. We all get upset because we have feelings.
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