How to be a mature person?

Quezon City, Philippines
October 3, 2013 10:36am CST
How to be a mature person? My friend, named Chelsy, always ask me this question. Sometimes, I wanna hit her because, she's too naughty. She's like a parrot, always repeating that question. That's why I decided to write a blog, dedicated especially for her. So, how to be a mature person? Well, for me, it depends on your perspectives in life. You can be considered a matured person base on your way of talking, interest, fashion sense, gestures and attitude. Let's start first with your way of talking, babytalking is actually an evidence of being an immature. But, what can I do if that's how you want to talk? You can talk anyway you like, you can talk like an autistic child or something, that's you. I can't do anything about it. Next your interests, if you like kiddy stuffs like happy meal, a toy gun, a barbie doll, a doll house. It doesn't matter as long as you're happy with it. Next, your fashion sense, it doesn't matter if you want to wear like a kid, a baby with jumper and a hat, a little girl who's obsess with any kind of dress as long as it's pink or even a little girl with a wings on it's back. Again, IT DOESN'T MATTER. Next one, gestures. We all have that one gesture that we can't ever change since we were little because, we're used to it. Like me, I used to eat or bite my nails ever since I was little and up until now, I'm still doing it.Lastly, attitude. It's the main point of this blog. Your attitude as well as your perspectives. For me, your an immature person if you can't understand why that person likes this and that one. As I have said, your interests, fashion sense, gestures or way of talking doesn't matter. It's you. We can't ever change you. That's how a mature person looks in life. If you are a mature person, you must understand that we all have that different qualities which makes us a unique person. You don't have to change anything in YOU as long as you accept yourself, YOU are a matured person. If you can accept others the way they are, YOU are a matured person. Well, that's on my point of view. :)
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@VVHere (16)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Oct 13
as long as i can accept myself ,then i could be a mature person,cuz that's me.Nothing can replace it.
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• Moradabad, India
5 Oct 13
Only a mature person has a right to call somebody mature or immature.Nobody is born mature.
• Philippines
6 Oct 13
Very well said :)
@Jessup (11)
• Huntington, New York
4 Oct 13
my friends tell me ima mature person because of my attitude but I'm a mellow. Person & I barley play around
• Shanghai, China
4 Oct 13
Everyone is unique. So we should accept ourselves.
• New Delhi, India
4 Oct 13
agree with you.
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• Moradabad, India
5 Oct 13
Do not invite the pain when it is raining let it rain. This is the biggest experience and who has this ability,is the mature person. Thanks
6 Oct 13
I am not mature enough too, don't think too much about that and let that question bother ourselves. Sometimes, a little childish person is cute.
@gdasila (33)
• New Delhi, India
4 Oct 13
we should not try to be mature person, with time you become mature automatically. Even you'll not realise when and how you became mature. So enjoy life and don't think about this kind of questions.. God Bless you..!
• Moradabad, India
5 Oct 13
A mature person is that who has ability to make a decision and stand by it. Thanks
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• Guangzhou, China
5 Oct 13
My friend,just be optimistic whatever it is,right?
• Cheyenne, Wyoming
6 Oct 13
is it
• Kathmandu, Nepal
6 Oct 13
Yes! This question is among those few questions that is encountered sooner or later by most of us. Well, the right answer could be that we grow matured over the period of time. I think the experience to some extent makes us mature. So, like what you do, feel experienced and ultimately mature.
• Moradabad, India
5 Oct 13
Maturity needs experience.A mature person profits from personal experience,and a wise person from the experience of others. Maturity is the ability to control anger and settle differences without violence and destruction. Thanks.