Hurting the One We Love

Quezon, Philippines
October 5, 2013 10:58am CST
Why do we say we love a person, yet we do the things that will hurt them?. If they are there we ignore them, but if they are not around we find them. If the one we love is there for us, we look for someone else. If they are busy, we miss them. Most of the time, we do not appreciate the things that they do for us. We don't even think if they are hurt of what we're doing to them, or we used to be insensitive for the love that was given to us. If the time comes that they are tired of accepting the things that we've been doing, they will leave us. That's the time we realize the things that we ignore, and it's too late to correct the mistakes because they're gone.
4 people like this
2 responses
@Meconium (17)
• Wuhan, China
8 Oct 13
We always do the same thing that is hurting persons who love us. The only thing we can do is to treasure them, not hurt them to go after regret. PS:I'm a Chinese girl,and I first came to this forum.If there is an awkward place to be vexed.
1 person likes this
• United States
11 Oct 13
You make a good point about hurting the ones we love. Perhaps many hurt the people they love because they are the easiest people to hurt. Sad as it sounds, after hurting someone close, it so often happens again, and again.Even though the one causing the pain has much regret. I, and hopefully others will trust their loved ones feelings, and think before lashing out at them, or doing things that will hurt them. Good response on this subject June!
• Quezon, Philippines
11 Oct 13
Yes, your comment basically sums up what I just posted. Thank you!
• Wuhan, China
11 Oct 13
@sweetshen Welcome.I am a rookie of myLot,and I want to get some friends here.
• Moradabad, India
6 Oct 13
Love is not joke,it is a question of whole life.Whom we love we never hurt the delicate feelings of him but he should also do the same. Love begets love. Thanks
1 person likes this
• Quezon, Philippines
11 Oct 13
I agree! We should not joke around when it comes to love.
1 person likes this
• Moradabad, India
11 Oct 13
@sweetshen Only a true lover knows the pleasures of madness in love. Thanks a lot.